How, can I choose which one to be with? I can't make up my mind.
2006-08-11 08:07:56 · 12 answers · asked by Hi T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You get a lot of aids tests.....
2006-08-11 08:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by fairly smart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!! You throw that word "Love" around very loosely. Maybe you should question your concept of Love.
Would it be ok if one or both of these people were treating you in that manner? If they had another woman they were seeing at the same time as you, how would you feel about that?
Ask yourself if you are in Lust with either of them? Now that seems more appropriate a description of what you may be experiencing. There is strong reason to doubt that you understand what Love truly is. Be certain it is not being deceptive. By "loving" someone during the day.. and "loving" someone at night you are engaging in deceptive behavior and that's very hurtful to all those involved.
Get it together... because you will reap what you sow one day.
2006-08-11 15:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out on a really long date with each of them. Get to know everything you can about them, and figure out what you like about them. Listen to your heart, and choose the one you feel is the best for you. Good luck, sweetie. =)
2006-08-11 15:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by captain_siv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that very same questions and I still haven't been able to figure it out???But I do know this if you keep seeing both of them it only gets more confusing. And in the long run it's better if you can make a deision. Although I still have been able unable to do that.
2006-08-11 15:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by Moni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say try getting them together. After all most men's fantasy is to have 2 girls at 1 time why shouldn't you ladies have the same fantasy Just keep in mine where they may want to put it at the same time and be prepared to take it that way. you no front rear and oral. ...you no you still have room for a 3rd
2006-08-11 15:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by diverbob_70005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, bad move on your part. Dating two guys at the same time is not smart. I say you don't need to be dating at all if thats how you play the game. How about waiting until one of them decideds to step their game up and give their to you.
2006-08-11 15:15:07 · answer #6 · answered by Gentleman in Disguise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not right to do so....Loving two at the same time...it's nothing you are cheating yourself.....Just close your eyes and think of God..and the first picture which comes in your mind is the right one.....
2006-08-11 15:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by Ashish M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you need to ask yourself if either of them are really for you. if either of them really were "the one"(which is all you should consider imo), the choice would be obvious.
if you still cant decide, make sure they both know that there's competition, that way it will become obvious very quickly.
2006-08-11 15:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend the weekend with each one seperately in a place at least 100 miles away, then you will know
2006-08-11 15:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by Brent J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe date them both. don't be commited. just strictly date around. get to know them both better. then choose
2006-08-11 15:09:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful around dusk and dawn.
2006-08-11 15:20:47 · answer #11 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋