please..i need help?

Question

i need help!..

my little brother is such a loser! hes 2 yrs younger than me, and if i ever commit suicide he'll be the reason! He says the meanest things to me for the stupidest effin reaso, i cry every day
one time (today) i was on the computer and the phone was right there, and he was on the otherside of the room and he was like can u give me the phone, and i said get up and get it yourself, so he starts fighting with me than gets it, and he was like why are yo to lazy?..and i was like w/e

so than he sit on the couch, and he was just frigin saying how im to lazy because im lezbian, and he kept calling mea lezbian. and im not. He just started saying it after he heard me talking to my saying how this kid asked me if i wanted to be a lezbian.
and than he said "wonder why kyle broke up with you, your a fugly *****".
idk what to do it hurts me soo much. Than i go up nd start hitting him nd he keeps saying more stuff. i just need somthing good to say, or to do. i cry evertim

Answer 1

For one thing both you and your brother need to grow up.

Him for being such a immature *** wipe and you for letting him get to you.
He just picking fights with you to get a reaction, lf you ignore him, then he would stop. other thing you can do is to distance yourself away from him (For example:lf comes into the kitchen while you in there , then leave to the living room, avoid him at all cost)

lf that doesn't help or it get to be too much or dangerous, then get higher authority like your parents or someone who has control over your brother to deal with him.

do something with yourself. Involve yourself in activities, Volunteer at your local food bank or your local camp or youth centres,go hang out with friends or do somethings positive with yourself, dont let your brother's trolling ruin you or your life.
one last thing....
People who usually comment on people sexual orientation with slurs such as " youre so gay or such a lesibean, etc", usually question they re own sexuality
hope this helps
-Rave

Answer 2

You are giving in to what he wants. Ever heard the phrase "negative attention is better that no attention"? Just ignore him. What he says is immature and silly-so what if he says you are a lesbian. I know some very nice lesbians and you know the truth, that you arent one. Just get up and leave the room or go for a walk or something when he does this, especially if you are going to cry because when he sees you cry it makes him continue to do it and get satisfaction out of your reaction. I assure you after a while he will quit when he sees that you arent going to play into his little game. It might get worse at first because he will be striving to get your attention but he will quit after a while.

Answer 3

Hes only doing this because he know how much it gets to you and it makes him feellike a macho man. This wont be easy but you have to learn to ignore him and eventually once he knows his little games arent working anymore he will quit. Now if you understand what Im telling you and think of it when he attacks, you will be able to dealwith him and itll get easier every time til he quits. Dont attack him on his level as this will only egg him on. He willprobably get nastier before he quits but just think of this as a means to an end, it will help. Also learning the fine art of ignoring will help you throughout life itself. Good luck

Answer 4

girl he is your Little bro i have to of them they say things all the time just pay him no mind or one day just embarass him with some thing that you know about him the what we older sister do don't let him get the best of you use what he says about you against him just change the words around he will learn or just give him a good a** kicking that seem to work for me but it was not my bro that gave me that hard time it was my little sis and those can be the worse believe me

Answer 5

Try and get out of the house more. And tell your parents. Don't ever fight back,even though it's so hard just don't fight back walk away and he will stop. If he thinks you lazy,put it into a question... Are you? If so get out and ride your bike to get away from and so he doesn't think your lazy.

Answer 6

If you're older, you have the upper hand. If you keep crying in front of him, he will continue to taunt you. You're basically feeding his anger. Don't mean to be harsh, but you need to get a backbone and powned the little twirp.

Answer 7

I wouldnt worry about it. There are so many other people out there with WAY better reasons to commit suicide. Tomorrow, go back and read your post, and you will see how rediculous it sounds. Really, im not trying to mean, but you will see...

Answer 8

It's just the problem of mutual understanding...Crying is not the solution of any problem..not even fighting...Sit with ur brother and try of solve it in a good manner.....

Answer 9

im an older brother iv learned to IGNORE them even when they talk to you then they think you dont care and they leave if that dosent work assert your self and that dosent work dont give him what he wants and fi THAT dosent work [depending on how old he is [12-up]] give him a nice kick between the legs.[i cant d that becuase i have a sister.

Answer 10

Don't pick fights with him. Be polite.

If he tries to get you to fight with you, ignore him. If necessary, leave the room.

Don't listen to what he says when he insults you or tries to hurt your feelings. Just keep telling yourself that he's mentally unbalanced and it doesn't matter what he says.

You are the one who's giving him the power to hurt you. Don't keep giving it to him.