how do i tell my b/f not to do something that he loves but could hurt him in the future and is hurting him now

Question

hes doing drugs and i have talked to him about it many times but i can never seem to get through to him we have been going out for almost six months and i love him very much but i dnt want him to be hurting himself like that or in any other way for that matter

Answer 1

You can tell him but he won't listen to you. Why? You're talking to the drugs. Here is a web site where you can read about the problem: http://rational.org/index.html
You need to decide whether you are willing to continue as things are. If you are, just keep doing what you've been doing. If he hasn't stopped the drug use because of what you've said to him, you can stop talking to him about drugs because it won't do any good. If you don't want to continue the way things are (they'll probably get worse) then you say he can have the drugs or he can have you but not both. And then follow that with action.

Answer 2

you cannot really tell him not to due something if you are equals in a relationship, you can however talk with him and voice your concerns and let him know your feelings are only looking out for his well being.

Answer 3

If ur talking about drugs then tell him he could die and if he doesn't listen to you he might as well.(this is if u r talking about drugs)

Answer 4

that is so not usefull if u said wt it is we b bale 2 give u advice as taht is way 2 bround.. but as genreal advice tell him u love him and wnt 2 make shore he ok.. explain wt u fear.. and mayb offer 2 do something bck 4 him in return ;)

Answer 5

Show him the pros and con's of his actions. He is the only one that will make the decision.

Answer 6

You don't. If it is a sport, then let him do it. If it's drugs, drop him like a stinkin' sack of poo.

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Answer 8

TAKE HIM TO A NARCOTICS ANONYMOUS MEETING