Honestly, women, would you prefer to have sons or daughters?

Answer 1

Both. I would love to have at least one of each sex.

Answer 2

I'd like to have one of each, but from what I have seen boys are definitely a lot more work, much more boisterous, more aggressive and a lot more hard work for their mothers.

As a lawyer I have seen countless cases where women are chasing errant fathers for child maintenance. Following divorce, men do their best not be involved or evade/avoid maintenace payments.After five months men have little or no contact with their kids. . Smart women are leaving it a lot later before marrying or having kids or at least being a lot more selective in their choice of partner.

For women it can be a life sentence especially when lazy or careless men don't pitch in or help out. So ladies, think twice before you embark on parenthood. Most men by their nature are lazy and unwilling to care or contribute to the ubringing of their offspring sadly.

Answer 3

I prefer sons because they are usually easier to raise. Teenage girls can be the most annoying creatures on the face of the earth. But I think when you get older, that is the time you'd prefer to have a daughter to talk to (as an adult).

Boys are easier though!

Answer 4

Daughters!

Answer 5

I only have a girl and am expecting another, dont know what the sex is though. My daughter is a handful. She always wants attention non stop.Wants everything you have.Gets into everything and plays with everything except her toys.Doesnt listen to anything I say .Laughs when I tell her no or smack her hands whenever she trys to touch cords and etc. Refuses to sleep in her crib. Even if I leave her in there to soothe herself to sleep she will cry for hours and hours. She will scream at the top of her lungs whenever you dont give into what she wants. And she is only 8 months old. I've been told this is normal. But I have friends with children and they say theirs never did this. My mom says boys are more layed back but I dont know.

Answer 6

I've had a son. Been there and done that. I can't have anymore children so I will hope for a grand-daughter. I have a 2 year old grandson now and I love being a Grandma!

Answer 7

I wanted a girl first but I had a boy. He is the most wonderful thing that ever happened to my life (along with his dad) and I couldn't imagine our lives without him. I always thought I wanted one of each but if I have another son I'll be fine!!! He loves his mother with all his little heart so I will NEVER complain about not having a girl.

Answer 8

I want one of each. Right now I am pregnant with a girl. I hope the next baby I have (whenever that is...) is a boy, but I would be just as happy with another girl.

I always wanted a boy, but if my "little girl" turns out to be a "little boy" by mistake of the ultrasound tech, then I would be upset because I already have visions of taking my little girl to the beach and brushing her hair... but, I still would like a boy one day.

Answer 9

My first child was the most adorable, wonderful, beautiful little golden-haired, adopted boy. I loved him so much and was so happy to have him that when I was expecting my second child I kind of thought it would be nice to have another little boy, so I'd have a "set". I had my other little boy, and I had a "set" of the two sweetest, cutest, nicest little boys anyone could imagine. When the time came to have one more child (after all, I'd only delivered one and wanted to have another myself) I hoped for a girl for "intellectual reasons". After all, I had the two little boys. It made sense to hope for a girl. I couldn't, though, imagine loving a little girl the way I loved my sweetie little boys. I don't know... I guess I remembered some of my little girlfriends when I was a kid and remembered how little girls can be kind of "picky" or "snippy" (or something).

Oh my God - when she was born I couldn't believe it. I couldn't believe how much I loved her! All of a sudden I had to re-think what it means to be a girl or woman. All of a sudden I had to adjust the decorations in the house in order to show her that the house was a house for girls as well as boys and adults. I had to think about setting an example for her, helping her to "see her elegance", and helping her to find a balance between being feminine and being smart and strong.

A lot of people want girls "so you can dress them". I dressed my boys in cute little boy clothes that I thought would help them learn to enjoy looking their best in the way that was right for their gender. So the "dressing them thing" wasn't a factor at all.

I loved them the same and enjoyed them equally then. I love them the same and enjoy them equally now. A set of two of one gender is nice, so is one of each, so is two and one, or whatever other combination you get. If you just see and love them as the humans they are their gender isn't much of a factor.

Answer 10

I would like to have a son. I've had 3 kids...all girls. And of course I love them all to death. But every time I have wanted a boy. I just think boys seem like more fun. I like boy clothes and boy activities and boys aren't so moody, and you don't have to do their hair and worry as much about keeping them clean. Plus they seem like they'd be less expensive in the long run.

Answer 11

I have one of each & I can't decide which I would rather choose. They both have positives - nothing like shopping for pretty clothes with my daughter & painting her little fingers & toes & dressing her in gorgeous clothes!! But there's nothing like the pride I feel at my sons' accomplishments, either - when he crossed over from Cub Scout to Boy Scout I thought I would bust with pride! and he has the sweetest hugs, for me. He still likes to hug me & hold my hand when I go to school for lunch - none of this "not in front of my friends!" crap - his friends want hugs & all want to go with me on field trips!! So they are both awesome. I am blessed!