I met Giena about two years ago, she has a b/f. I have a g/f, and I love my g/f with all my heart. However I feel like Giena and I should be together, but I will not do anything to hurt my g/f. What can i do?
2006-08-11 07:55:27 · 39 answers · asked by be_hush 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You never know what the future brings. If you are meant to be, you will be. Its respectable that you love your girlfriend and don't want to hurt her.
2006-08-11 07:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a decision. You can't truly love your girl if you are thinking of someone else. I know it sucks hurting peoples feelings but break it off for awhile, even if you can't have this new girl. Maybe you just need a little break and some time to yourself. Your girl doesn't deserve it. Take some time to yourself. Who knows, if you break it off, the new girl might break her relationship off and you might eventually get together. It won't happen instantly though. Don't be afraid to be alone.
2006-08-11 08:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by shakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be together? Obviously your GF is not the only one for you if you have feelings for someone else. If you want to be with Giena then break up with your GF and wait around and see if she feels the same. Follow your gut.
2006-08-11 07:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! you are such a good guy not to cheat on your girlfriend but if you feel this way and you just keep this in your head you are eventually just going to break and wind up doing something with this other girl. i'd say, talk to this other girl and see if she feels the same way and then go from there. but think about what you and your girlfriend have together. see if it's really worth it.
2006-08-11 08:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by greeneyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you positive Giena feels the same way? Is she willing to leave her boyfriend for you? Out of curiosity, how old are you? How long have you been with your girlfriend. Are you with her because you feel you should be or because you truly want to be. You have a lot of questions to ask of yourself before you make any decisions.
2006-08-11 07:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk your feelings out with Giena first. Maybe she doesn't feel the same way. You can't have it both ways. If you decide to go for Giena, then you will hurt your g/f, if you don't try you maybe missing out on your soulmate.
2006-08-11 07:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r thinking of another woman then u dont really love ur gf maybe u should separate for a while and not date any one just to see who u think abt more or whom do u love more. love is a strange thing make up ur mind b4 commiting to any one
2006-08-11 07:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go... You cant have both girls. & if you pursue the other, you will hurt your g/f and the other girls b/f. So decide who do you want. If you do want the other girl... Leave your g/f. Dont drag her along just cuz you cant have the other girl... Obviously you dont want her as a long term companion. Good luck.
2006-08-11 07:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are so selfish. i have a feeling that giena is just a lust. if you really love your gf then stop thinking about giena! and if you cant.. well then i think your gf would want to know what your feeling. havent you been posted the offline on yahoo messenger... "dont leave the one you love for someone you like, because the one you like will leave you for someone they love." yeah. listen to it.
2006-08-11 07:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by missy_t_09 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and no im not talking about the disney theme songs i mean stop thinking logically and start thinking emotionally
2006-08-11 07:58:10 · answer #10 · answered by prophetoftruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋