never warned you about an STD they had and gave you? what if it is somone you love?
also, would you ever have sex with someone without telling them you have an STD, putting them in danger? before you answer, put yourself in the position, dont just immediately assume no.
of course im talking about sex without a condom, so its possible to give the STD to your partner. this is just hypothetical, so dont say go to the doctor and get it checked or anything stupid
2006-08-11 07:42:47 · 9 answers · asked by sexydp 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd be super-pissed, to put it lightly, if I was sexually active with someone and they didn't tell me about an std they had. I'm clean and wanting to stay that way. Were I to have some sort of std though, and while I do sympathize with people who have to have that awkward and difficult conversation with their partner, I would definitely tell them. It's a real a$$hole thing to do if you just have sex with them without them knowing what they're getting into.
2006-08-11 07:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that STD's should always be taken very seriously and you should not be spreading them around willy nilly. If you know you have one, you should insist on protected sex even if one or both of you are used to it without.
If he didn't warn you about his STD, his only excuse is that he didn't know, and it's a poor one at that. He deserves a slap in the least for being so inconsiderate.
2006-08-11 07:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... ONCE upon a time... I met a boy. I fell in love! Things were great for about 6 months and then one day... .Something weird was going on down there... I've not been entirely "careful" my whole life, but i KNOW for a fact that he was hardly EVER careful...So I go to the doc, Its a Cureable STD. I cure it, I tell him about it, he gets cured, and we lived Happily ever after.
2006-08-11 07:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a good idea to know your partner very well before having sex with them without a condom for this very reason. If you know them well enough, they should be able to be honest with you about their situation. About your question, I'd be very pissed and probably never talk to them again.
2006-08-11 07:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by rebecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may get some answers to your hypothetical question, but no one can really know how they'd react until they're in the situation themselves. There are so many variables.
2006-08-11 07:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by byama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I know its hard but before I ever have sex with someone I dont know or even love I will get them tested cause diseases can be spreaded in many ways and can cause death so watch out who you have sex with and if its the right decision.
2006-08-11 07:49:54 · answer #6 · answered by sascheer1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would kill them if it's an STD that can't cure and i would tell my partner that i have it that's only fair to them
2006-08-11 07:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never sleep with someone if I didn't know their sexual history . I more geared for sex in the marriage...
2006-08-11 07:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by lambgroni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would kill my partner and yes
2006-08-11 07:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by sarah k 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋