would you date a guy that has no fingers? and please, i need more then just "it shouldnt matter"
2006-08-11 07:35:06 · 15 answers · asked by jnnybartos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i m talking bout this guy i know that really really likes me and my sister said when she hangs out with him that he NEVER stops talking about me.....i've only hung out with him like 5 times and he is the sweetest guy i ever met. and yes he can pretty much do everything without them....he has no fingers because a car engine fell on them and crushed them so now they are cut down to his middle knuckles, including his thumbs.
2006-08-11 07:44:39 · update #1
Of course I would. If you were in a car accident and lost a leg wouldn't you still be the same girl you always were? Of course you would. You'd just be a little more understanding about how the physical isn't what life is all about. True love affairs are affairs of the heart and mind. The physical attraction will take care of itself with time... when your heart and mind know what's right.
2006-08-11 07:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by Hidden .38 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aside from the fact that he cant use those fingers to pleasure you it should be more based upon what he can do. If he is someone that makes you happy and you are able to overlook his physical downfalls than you should defintely not worry about it. Think about it this way. Would you be happier with him or without him thats what it really comes down to all fingers aside.
2006-08-11 14:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by buckweedo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you not? Men are men and a man's hands don't make him a man. Yes I would date a man with no fingers if the attraction was there.
2006-08-11 14:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by faith m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you like him for who he is. I dated a women years ago who lost an eye and wore a patch. She was great, fun loving and insecure. We did not last because she could not get past people who would not look past the patch and find out who she was. By asking this question you should ask another. Are you insecure or is he?
2006-08-11 14:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. if he's an amazing person, like personality wise, then (sorry) it shouldn't matter. but if you think there are better people out there, erm, with fingers.. then.. no?
it depends on how much you like him. but the fact that he doesn't have any fingers shouldn't be the decision factor on whether you date him or not.
2006-08-11 14:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would that have anything to do with if you would like to date the man...
If this bothers you then you will never let that go and it will ruin the relationship, why bother if that is already a problem with you?
2006-08-11 14:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by chocolatesyrup101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had a wonderful personality I would. I mean it just a disibility. People should look at whats on the inside instead of just at the package wrapping.
2006-08-11 14:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm never really thought about it. I know you don't want to hear it shouldn't/doesn't matter. but that is the answer. Could you tell us if this is a recent thing that happened or were you born this way?
2006-08-11 14:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by Beeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fingers is not what makes a person complete and worthy to be dated. If he cant handle himself well, then theres no use in dating him.
2006-08-11 14:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by islandgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bear in mind that he can't mow the lawn, and what else are guys good for?
2006-08-11 14:39:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋