I've asked three guy friends about their "sex" life and they always tell me about their first time. All of them said that 1) There partner was a virgin too 2) their partner and themselves enjoyed it 3) there was no passion and the most important one 4) they didn't even like the girl....I asked them why did they do it then if they didn't like the girl...they all said the same answer.....FOR THE PLEASURE.!! what's up with that?
2006-08-11 07:24:55 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um, because guys are able to separate sex and love. Therefore, a guy can have sex with just about anyone, regardless of how atttractive they might be. Unfortunately, most women can't get over their need to be in love with people. It is their main weakness. If women could get over their need for validation, they would easily rule the world.
2006-08-11 07:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by noir 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost my virginity to a guy I wanted to lose it to ... he wasn't my BF ... he wasn't my best friend ... he was just a guy I felt soooo much sexual tension with I couldn't help myself ... and at the time I thought to myself it's just sex .. and shoot ... I was 18 and felt I can do whatever the f*ck I wanted to do ...
So yeah I totally understand where your friends were coming from ... !
To me sex isn't always about love ... it's an act that is pleasurable for all parties involved ... making each other happy ... dropping your guard and showing your true self ... don't get me wrong ... sex is more pleasurable to me when it's with somebody I love ... but I'm not that straight laced I guess when it comes to sex ... I like to experiment and have fun with it ... you can't truly enjoy ever aspect of SEX if you're always worried about what others will say about you ... Plus America was built from Christian Puritans .. that were all prudes ... go to other counties and sex is very open and fun ... people don't look down on sex ... and they're not ashamed of it either .. like most people are ... !
2006-08-11 07:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I agree. the certainty that teenage boys are in many instances extra attractive than females their very very own age is a huge factor. sixteen/17 12 months previous adult men are crammed with raging hormones, yet females their very very own age are in many instances responsive to it, and their mothers probable tell them that boys their age in basic terms want one factor, so the ladies folk won't have a bar of them. some boys then turn to the young women at school, and a few of those females could be extra desirable than happy to pass out with an older boy with a vehicle and a drivers licence and an element-time interest. How exciting for a fifteen 12 months previous woman!
2016-10-01 23:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason girls do!
Look, let's clear something up right now. It takes 2 to tango. Why do guys get the bad rap, when girls do the the same exact thing? There are different types of people, not gender. If you are into that sorta thing, guy or girl, then great! If not, then great! Why make it your business? It's like the TV... If you dont like it stay away from it.
2006-08-11 07:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by C P R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys will lose their virginity to any girl, no matter how she looks because all they care about is gettin some and telling their friends about it to make them seem macho! Girls do it because they want to please their boyfriend, or the guy they like. There both stupid reasons, I think you should lose your virginity when your in love, and together for a while! People who lose their virginity young usually wind up pregnant because they dont know what their doing!
2006-08-11 07:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by ••Bubbles•• 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cos us guys have sex for 2 reasons
1. To have the experience
2. To boast to our friends about it
so sometimes if a guy just wants sex so bad or wants sex cos he is still a virgin and all his friends arent he will do it with anyone.
2006-08-11 07:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mrmiscellaneous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to be rude, but that's just guys being guys. As they get older you'd be suprized what they will screw as lon as no on finds out!
I've been guilty of that. the guy's motto: "they are all beauties after 11pm and queens at last call" Not being a smart a__ but that's the reality of it. Romance is a sideshow.
2006-08-11 07:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by baseballman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls of a young age tend to think prince charming and princess type thing and expect it to be romantic and exciting.. blokes think that it is a macho, daring and step up from boy to man after all the majority have been playing with themselves for years before they lost their virginity so they have an image to keep i suppose and men think differently to women
2006-08-11 07:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by pankypaxo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
once u get past doing it for the first time u r more confident and experienced so it is easier to get the next time. the first time is like ur first job... u may not even like it but u need the experience
2006-08-11 07:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they know they won't be any good at it the first time and they take a "test drive" with someone it won't matter with. Don't even try to understand guys and sex. It's a totally different ballgame from how we think.
2006-08-11 07:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by yadayadayada 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋