my bf realy want's to have sex with me but im not interested and i really love him and do any thing to hurt him.what should i do? p/s help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-11 07:15:04 · 18 answers · asked by jemima a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him you're not ready. Dont give in unless you really want it. If he cares he will respect you.
2006-08-11 07:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This depends: part of loving is also being able to give yourself to soemoene. However it should NEVER BE FORCED into anyone. How long have you guys being together? how old are you? Nothing wrong with not wanting sex if that's what you BOTH want. Maybe it's time to move on, he wants sex, you don't want sex. You need to be with someone who wants to wait, like you.
2006-08-11 14:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not interested DON'T have sex with him. Sex is more serious than most people make it out to be. It tends to be more a physical issue for men and an emotional one for women. Don't EVER do anything you don't want to to keep a guy. Any boy who would ask you to compromise yourself for his desires isn't thinking about you... he's only thinking about himself. Therefore, YOU must think about yourself.
2006-08-11 14:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Hidden .38 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in relationship now its take it or leave it
if ur boyfriend is sexually active and love u and u also love him
he cannot supress his sexually feelings forever
so if u are not ready let him find his ways cus i can guarantee u that he cant continue like that either he will force u or leave u
thats how the human chemistry works
why go in if u are going to starve him sexually
u must be ready to go into a relationhip
2006-08-11 14:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by maku d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your life and your body. Don't let anyone force you to do anything you don't want to do. If he loves you than he will understand and if not than he may only want the sex so be careful but be true to yourself and don't worry about hurting someone cause you don't want to have sex with them.
2006-08-11 14:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by buckweedo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do anything until you are ready. You will end up regretting it. If he is going to get upset because you do not want to do something , and be mean to you , than you need to find someone Else.
2006-08-11 14:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're not interested? or you're not ready. If you're "not interested" then you should probably do it if you care about him, and you'll probably get something out of it too. if you don't want to or you're not ready, then that's another thing entirely. Tell him about it and let him know that you don't think you're ready yet for that.
2006-08-11 14:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want to hurt him than tell him that you have to get to know him better or you could say that you have a yeast infection.
2006-08-11 14:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by shawNAYYYY<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he truly loves you he will not make you or even ask you to have sex with him he sound like a loser if he is asking you he not right for you he should be like when ever you are ready but no presser take your time he is a loser
2006-08-11 14:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by sandilou23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better not to go into something that you don't want to do. Well..u don't have to go all the way with him, if u know what i mean. U can give him a *******, etc.
But seriously, if you dont want any of these, then he should respect your decision.
2006-08-11 14:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by lyricass 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't hurt yourself to give him something that likely isn't going to mean much to him anyway. Seriously, he just wants to get laid, and he'll say anything to get his way. If you do it anyway, you'll regret it.
2006-08-11 14:19:27 · answer #11 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋