What should I do?

Question

I have lost 6 family member in the last 3 years. I want to hate god for it but I cant in so hurt and dont know what to do?

Answer 1

losing your loved ones is tough but its a reality in life that we cannot stop from happening. I know you're in pain and you're in the verge of losing your faith. What you can do is consult a priest and ask for spiritual guidance. You may lose every single thing in your life, but not GOD.

Answer 2

Well. I know it is difficult to recover from such repeated shocks. But then life has to go on. Time and tide wait for none. Hating God is not a solution. Because hating god leads to hating people and it will make ur life more misery. Just go out and see how people are living. Visit any hospital / court / prison / old age homes / orphanages to see for yourself the kind of trouble people are going through. Iam not trying to be a smartass, but then life is like that. Pls take some professional counseling. Pls cheer up and take care. All the best......

Answer 3

God doesn't want anyone to die. Read your Bible...Romans 5:12 tells us that because of sin death entered the world. There is also the promise that we can be resurrected, John 17:1-3. Look toward that resurrection and know that you will see your loved ones again. I know that it seems like small consolation when the pain is so real and you want to see them so much but death is inevitable in this world and we have to learn to contend with it or we would go mad. Clutch at the straws that the Bible offers and you will soon learn that it contains great comfort and the knowledge of the ages. Death has long been with us and the Bible writers all had to deal with it the same as you and they wrote of their despair and their hope. Please, read it for yourself and see if you find relief. Psalms 86 was written by King David.

Answer 4

i know how you feel. when i was younger.. (a few years ago.. im only 15!)but anyway when i was younger i lost 3 family members within two years along with my family dog. And not to long ago i lost my great grandmother. first off don't hate god even though you can feel like it. after all he knows what hes doing and has everything happen for a reason. second, cope with it, after alittle you will get better and let go. third, if you ever need to talk, there are always people around to talk to. talking to people can help you cope. for some people its writing your feelings or painting. others get balloons and let them go to symbolize them letting go, or writing a letter to the deceased person.

hope it helped, and im sorry to hear about your loss.

Answer 5

Know that things happen for a reason and there is indeed a reason why these things happen. Try to see the bright side and don't dwell too much in the darkness because it's ultimately you who suffers. Accept life for what it is along with happiness, sadness and everything else and try to live as best as you can knowing that no matter what happend to your loved ones, they are in a better place. Peace be with you.

Answer 6

keep the faith and time will heal all wound everything happen 4 a reason.god knows best.dont let the devil get to u thats exactly what the devil would want u to do is to give up on god be strong and god wold be their 4 u.

Answer 7

it's logical to feel hate towards any higher power,we don't know if God exists, but u know yr God though.if u can't hate him/her, then u have reason.maybe yr protected in some way. visit someone who can help u release yr grief. try E.M.D.R. method,finds the trauma immediately and will help u release emotions. find a good EMDR therapist.

Answer 8

You cant blame someone who DOES NOT EXIST. Go to a consular and they will be able to help you cope. Keep in mind death is part of life and we cant live without death. Its is messed up but5 that's how it works

Answer 9

It happens. Wait to you get older and it dosn't seem to stop. God does not care.

Answer 10

You would benefit from a grief counselor.