my bf cheated on me, but i still love him, should i leave him?

Answer 1

YES! Leave him.... It will hurt like hell....Don't you think you deserve better kind of LOVE, then what you getting from him.

Answer 2

Well, ask yourself if you are any less of a person than he is. Also ask yourself if you can live with him cheating on you all the time and not knowing what type of deseases he wil bring back to you or how many kids he will have out there that you might not know of, if not now, in the future. Do you actually think this is the first time he will cheat on you? Is that really love? Now, is it time to leave?

Answer 3

Depends. You may want to sit down and chat with him and get it out in the open, but things won't be the same. You may want to use this as a turning point in terms of relationships and learn from it. It hurts to know what he did and it wouldn't make it better for you if you turned around and did the same. That would defeat the purpose of you learning not to have that happen to you again. Cheating on him with revenge in mind will also put you in his place and you'll wind up meeting the same type of guy.

Talk about it to find out why (don't think it's your fault, but then again, there's 2 sides to EVERY story), and either do things to make changes or walk away.

You have 2 choices, but they come with responsibility.

Good luck.

Answer 4

Hi Christina,

Dont make a decision in haste. First, how long have you guys been dating? Also, what were the circumstances that lead him to do this? How does he behave around you? Does he genuinely love you. We are all human beings and do make mistakes as some of us arent' strong enough to deal with emotions. In this case, it would be best to forgive. But if he just cheated on you for no reason, then it would be best to end it.

Good luck!

Answer 5

Since love is based on trust and communication, I'd have to ask back, have the two of you talked about this and do you still trust him? I'd want to find out his reasoning for the cheating; whether it was a "party foul" or something more involved.

If you are finding yourself constantly checking on him and his whereabouts, then you have to admit to yourself that you don't trust him anymore and should let him go and let yourself move on.

I hope this helps. Good luck!

Answer 6

Yes. Love can be a habit. You fell in love with the man who he was. The moment he cheated, he ceased to be that guy.

You just "think" you love him.

Look deep inside, and ask yourself "if he was my ideal man, would he cheat". If the answer is no, than you just "love" him out of habit. Leave before he does more damage.

Answer 7

Its up to you- do you love him enough to put up with this kind of sh*t? (people make mistakes sometimes) so is this a one time thing or a pattern and his defect? Things to consider....
Than if you stay with him, you CAN'T harbor hateful feelings and bring it up to use against him in fights or you might as well leave now. If you leave him, you should make sure to stand your ground and never go back or you are throwing all self respect out the window.
Good luck. Hard situation.

Answer 8

yah sorry i do think that u should. i have seen a lot of my girl and guy friends go back because they are so in love with the other person....but how can u be with someone that now only would cheat like that but full out lie to u. Come on now....sorry but he should have had the balls to cut it off if he wanted to be with someone else

Answer 9

i dont know, it depends how he cheated on you and how long you guys ahve been together. but if its like a big no no in the dating process the yea i would break up with him, but if its nothing to dramatic, then i would try to work it out. good luck!

Answer 10

You should cheat on him to get back at him.