2006-08-11 07:10:45 · 17 answers · asked by jemima a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are lucky that you have people on yahoo answers giving you word of wisdom. Like some have said already, wait after marriage then you can have sex anytime you want.
2006-08-11 07:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Contesta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in a perfect world I would say wait for sex. Let's get real though....we are human and we are going to be curious. I have seen people that didn't have sex (both man and woman) until they were married, and all of those relationships ended in divorce. Because at one point in time one or the other got curious of what it would be like to be with someone else. So, you know what I'm getting.....they CHEATED! So, I think sometimes it is good to go sew your wild oats before you get married. This being said...I don't think you should have sex until you are ready too, and if that means you want to wait until you are married then I say go for it.
2006-08-11 14:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...
Its personal preference/values/morals/etc.
I personally did not wait.
I hope to god my little sister will wait until marriage.
And in Sex & the City, Charlotte waited with Troy until the night before the wedding and found out he can't get it up. So... sometimes its important to sleep together before hand because sex and attraction is a part of a healthy marriage- what if he can't get it up? What if he completely sucks and is a big prude and refuse to try new things?
Religion wise- the bible says you're not supposed to have sex (of any kind) before you get married.
2006-08-11 14:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should follow your insticts! I personally DO think you should experience b4 tieying the knot! Once you're married and especially if you're young you're going to have wanted to have other sexual experiences, and if you don't you're never going to know if what you have is good or bad.... and this can possible be a problem in the relationship....
2006-08-11 14:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by -K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel about it. If you don't really believe in having sex before marriage that don't allow yourself to be pressured into it, and you'll feel a lot better. If you don't have any such misgivings, go wild, enjoy yourself, I personally don't think it makes sex with your future husband any less meaningful.
2006-08-11 14:16:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isen't when i was young i thought that i was falling in love with this guy i was dateing by the way we where only 16 but we sleep together and months down the rode we broke up.now i am 28 a married mother of four and i wish that i would have saved myself for my husband on our wedding night i do till this day live to regret loseing my virginity to a guy i thought loved me and really and truly we where both to young to no what love was.
2006-08-11 15:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by aloinnc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's actually really bad to have sex before marriage... it's best to wait:
http://www.marriageromance.com/stories/10802697703.htm
2006-08-11 14:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by arcmdark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best time is right in the middle of the wedding ceremony!
2006-08-11 14:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by cirdellin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good. What if a past lover is better than your hubby? The memories can be haunting...
2006-08-11 14:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by Lady in Pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think it is much better to wait until marriage. That way it is truly special the way god intened
2006-08-11 14:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋