and wanted you to join them in that life style -- what would you say and/or do??
2006-08-11 07:05:50 · 14 answers · asked by xxx69forall 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing,just nod on.
2006-08-11 07:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what sort of relationship you want and whether both of you could take it. there can be problems associated with swinging such as jealously and even the potential that your man might find someone else he wants to be with more than you (but then again so could you), also how would your family and friends feel if they knew you were swinging?. it's mainly a s*x thing obviously but if you're happy with your s*x life then i guess it's not such a good idea. i feel a true, happy and lasting relationship should only have 2 people in, you and him so if that's the type of relationship you want then tell him to take a hike. on the other hand if you don't think you would be bothered by the downsides and you want to experiment yourself then go ahead everyone's free to do what they want to do as long as it's not hurting someone else
2006-08-11 07:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. Had fun. It all depends on the person. If your in a relationship, you should have a idea of what they will say. If not, best time to "feel them out" is in bed during love making. Say something to the effect of "mm bet youd like to be with me and one more" or such. If they get agetated or blow it off, just laugh and say "I was just trying to see what aroused you more" and you know then what they wiould say..
2006-08-11 07:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you're not in ot that kind of stuff and end the relationship. If you continue with this relationship eventually you will become a swinger, trust me....
tell him something like:
It's cool that your in to that kind of things but unfortunately I'm not and I feel that This is going to create a big between us so.... ' m sorry but we have to end things right now.
2006-08-11 07:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by chato 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have to give it some consideration, and maybe re-evaluate what it was I really wanted out of the relationship.
2006-08-11 07:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Mojo Rising 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off i would be surprised and secondly i would have to leave him because i'm not into that sort of thing and really don't want to end up catching some disease from him.
2006-08-11 07:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by Leicha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on if you'd be open to try that or not.
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Its not for everyone, especially if you have a jealous personality.
2006-08-11 07:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say sure lets go
2006-08-11 07:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by jbmasterdragon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the situatition and what she looked like...
And don't forget...
No Glove No Love!!!
2006-08-11 07:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont like it than breakup or tell him/her so u could find something that u two have in common.
2006-08-11 07:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by shawNAYYYY<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋