Should I chat with him and pretend as if nothing happen OR should I just ignore him??
I don't want to brake up with him, he insisted on.
2006-08-11 06:44:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm so sorry for what happen dear....well your the only person here could tell if your bf still loves you or not...but why not??
talk to him straight up and fight for your relationship BEFORE ITS TOO LATE....sometimes guys break up COZ OF US TOO MUCH NAGGING...most of them don't mean to say it(BREAKING UP)...and what i think about them if we argue for something they think that we want to break up with them...so before we had a change to say it...i bet you they will be the first one who's SPLIT UP.
so atleast if people ask them who insisted...they will be proud that their the one who did....
anyways dear in relationship for it to work.....one of you need to lower the pride it doesn't matter who will....
good luck
2006-08-11 07:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remaining friends, just friends - is never a bad thing. However, sometimes it can hurt too much when you're not the one who wanted to break up with the other person. So if it does hurt to much from time to time just say hi and ask how he is or respond if he's the one to ask you, but leave it at that. There is no need for long chats or phone calls, ya know? You shouldn't just ignore him though, because that makes you seem rude. If it hurts too much, just distance yourself and be polite to him. If it doesn't hurt at all just talk to him whenever. Take care!
2006-08-11 06:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by ------ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello Hearbreak G,
I know that it sounds amazing, but many guys can still be friends with their X-girlfriends. Some can't, but others are able to, especially if you were able to talk with each other easily. In fact many of them make better friends than boyfriends.
I wouldn't be too worried about it, unless you don't feel comfortable about having him as a friend, or that maybe he's cramping your style meeting other guys, and such. Then you would need to tell him, "Thanks, but no thanks."
I hope that this helps.
--Rick
2006-08-11 07:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Communicate with him, tell him that you will but right now you need your space to get over him. Tell him you want to cut communication for a while till you're over him. Do you want to remain friends with him? If you don't tell him that. If you do but your feelings are hurting you do what I said above. If you're not sure tell him you'll give him a answer later.
2006-08-11 06:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be his friend there nothing wrong wit that but if you think its too much jus stay away.. he already lost his girl, dont loose everything u guys have..B friends
2006-08-11 06:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by LilAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there. talk to him. stop talking if it hurts you or if your convos seem weird If you are friends after a breakup that means you were never in love or still are.
2006-08-11 06:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by CoNfUsEdsWeEt<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay far away from him , if u go back its going to be like a cycle it'll keep on going
2006-08-11 06:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by _juicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away for now, it will be too hard.
2006-08-11 06:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to blow you, you have enough friends and you can't be friends with someone you like like.
2006-08-11 06:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ignore him and maybe he'll go away
2006-08-11 06:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋