There's a guy at my school who i like but i don't even know his name. I like his style and he's very cute. I am very shy so i don't know what to do? I get butterflies everytime i see him. Sometimes i even follow his to his bus and then leave another wayjust to look at him. Help me please.
2006-08-11 06:37:47 · 22 answers · asked by polkadot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-11 06:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up and introduce yourself. Most guys (depending on your age) are very receptive to a female who just comes up and talks to him. You don't have to ask him out or anything, just go and talk. First, you will figure out if he is what you are looking for (some guys look good from a distance and then end up being morons when you talk to them). Second, you will make him recognize you. Just keep talking to him. When you see him at school, make a point to go up and say hi, ask him how he is doing. If you see him at other places, say hi. After a little while he will get the picture. Then you can start seeing what he is interested in, and go from there. If he likes movies, then maybe get a group of your friends together and ask him if he wants to go. Starting out in groups makes it a lot easier. Just make sure you sit next to him during the movie : ) Then you can start asking him out (just the two of you). Make sure you don't sound like you need him to go or that you are desperately wanting him. just casually ask him out. And if you get to this point then you are home free girl.
Hope this helps.
2006-08-11 06:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by gonzo_fan2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this is what you should do. do you have any classes with him? if not it will be more complicated. find a common intrest. thats the easy part. once you do find an intrest that you share, you have to go up to him, introduce yourself and say " hi i couldn't help but to notice that you like_______" then hopefully you will be able to keep conversing and get to know him. i know that might sound hard, but thats the only way that you stand a chance of getting to know him. trust me i am shy but i used that idea to pick up this girl at my school that i was totally obsessed with and it worked out really great for me, hopefully it will work for you also.
2006-08-11 06:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by metalhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yay!! Im not alone! You're shy too! Anyhoo, that ain't answering your question. Ok, well duh, you're gonna get a LOT of this. just be yourself. I know, it sucks when people say that, cause you start trying to act like yourself, and then you're like,"wait. You're not supposed to HAVE to ACT like yourself." thats just weird. so that's not very helpful. well, just push yourself to not be so shy. Find out his name. say hi to him in the halls, help him if he needs it, smile at him when you see him. just be nice. Pretend in your mind that he's like some total geek and you're REALLY popular and confident and you feel sorry for him or something so you start talking to him. PRETEND mind yoiu. trust me. it actually kinda helps.
2006-08-11 06:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by Marina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go say hi, that is the easiest way for you to meet him, and that will help you realize that introducing your self to a stranger is not that big of a deal. better get use to it now, cause you are gonna have to do it your whole life.
2006-08-11 07:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u need to start talkin to the man laugh wit him cause if u keep actin shyit's not gonna be workin out so try to loosin up abit talk to him laugh have a good time
2006-08-11 06:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by Dera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could build up Courage and ask him out or just keep being your self just stop acting like a stalker
2006-08-11 06:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by Dum Spiro Spero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him alone and down on the ground and maybe flash him i dont know do something?>
2006-08-11 06:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by Peedab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously just act flirtatious with him that how i get the ladies attention. it should work the same with you. trust me, guys do not turn down flirting ladies if theyre good at it.
2006-08-11 06:41:04 · answer #9 · answered by lemonada dada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest i used to do that also....well the only way to be close to him is to find out who he hang out with and be friend with that person OR either pretend one day that you need to ask him something...like hey you look familiar do i know you from somewhere.....blah blah blah...GET MY POINT.
make sure that day that you will ask him that YOU LOOK WONDERFUL AND SMELL SO GOOD..
GOOD LUCK
2006-08-11 06:45:41 · answer #10 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋