I have my pride to not run after a guy... then again i should listen to my heart to not regret later on... But if he is not calling me it's becuz he is not intrested,,,,Should I take the risk to contact him and maybe get hurt ? Doesn't guy like when it's hard to get ?
2006-08-11 06:33:54 · 13 answers · asked by gougga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's better to lose your pride with someone you love, rather than lose that someone you love with your useless pride...
2006-08-11 06:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by Your best friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't follow him around like a lost puppy. It's ok to try calling him though. Nothing wrong with that. Don't let pride get in your way either. Pride is nice and all, but what good is it really? And why would you be losing any if you just tried to call him up? Get a feel for what he thinks of you right now. Just don't call him up fifty times. Then you've gone beyond losing your pride and into stalker status.
2006-08-11 13:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, most of the time but some guys are just shy and afraid of being shot down too. These guys don't call, out of fear.
The best thing to do, is call him to ask a question. Such as, "Is it true about such and such ? I heard blah, blah, blah, yesterday...."
Keep the reason for calling him, a casual subject. Then see how he reacts.
If he is very happy that you called, he probably is interested.
In that event, call him from time to time and give him your phone number.
He will then feel more relaxed about calling you.
The romantic aspect will just gradually creep into the scenerio, later.
Good Luck! Been there.
2006-08-11 13:43:21 · answer #3 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think pride will come into picture only if he does not respond even after repeated overtures from you, but you keep coming back for more of the same treatment.
Do let him know that you are interested, but know when to stop.
2006-08-11 13:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by urmilesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you are a girl. Keep your pride, be ladylike, and let the fellas chase YOU! Prove that you are a good catch! Don't stoop to calling a guy.
2006-08-11 13:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pride is a foolish thing... if you're interested in him, let him know. Playing hard to get is a stupid tactic, especially if you will feel like crap if he gets tired of chasing you and moves on.
Call him.
2006-08-11 13:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by Village Idiot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really really like da guy den giv him a call so den later on u aint regrettin nothing..or not let him com after u and keep ur pride
2006-08-11 13:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by LilAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy, there's always the possibility that he is just very shy. But honestly, if he's not calling its probably because he's not interested. Sorry
2006-08-11 13:40:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you really like this guys go for it! What do you have to lose? In fact you will finally know if he's interested or not...and if he's not then you can move on!
2006-08-11 13:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by mami17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something if you see something you want go after it. But if you feel that you shouldn't that means its not for you.
2006-08-11 13:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by adamsland1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋