Imagine this is you, then tell me what you'd do, please.
For 3 weeks, a guy has been coming into your work with his friends: talking to you, making lots of eye contact, etc. Finally you get up the nerve, ask him to hang out and he agrees, he seems really into it and suggests that you hang out when you get outta work. You do and have a blast and don't get home until really late. You make plans to hang out on Sunday. Sunday comes and he ends up cancelling because he needs to help his sister move furniture for a party. You wait a few days and call again to set up plans, but he gives you the same excuse about moving furniture.
Here's the question: do you attempt to make plans again or just forget about it and not try again?
Thanks!
2006-08-11 06:32:55 · 26 answers · asked by Nikki 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You didn't sleep with him. He did kiss you goodnight though. :)
2006-08-11 06:40:01 · update #1
Don't try anymore, let him be the one to call you and make plans....... and don't wait for his call either, go out with other guys and friends and enjoy life, if he is interested then he will contact you........ you let him know that you are interested already, now it is his turn.
2006-08-11 06:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose him. All ur doing is giving him an ego trip by asking again. He COULD have asked u to pick up some pizza and drinks and invited u to a moving party. He pays for everything, of course.
2006-08-11 06:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ben Dover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him be.I wonder what you did at the blast?If you had sex that night,then that's the reason why he's avoiding you.If not ,then he probably heard something bad about you or betted with friends that he could take you out and now wants nothing to do with you.
2006-08-11 06:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by emmanuella p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Third times a charm. But, no matter what excuse he uses (if he does not commit to a date with you), move on.
Did you sleep with him? That may have an ill effect also.
2006-08-11 06:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by Master Kenobi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getta friend to ask him if hes likes u
i have heard that alaot the guy showing intrest and then blowing u off
it happends it is a matter of how much u wnat him
good luck hope this helps u out
Cool Girl
2006-08-11 06:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by Tite Chickaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man, don't call back cause the more you look for him, the more he thinks he has you on check, and plus if he is really into you, he will look for you, he will make the effort (just like you have) to go out with you, no matter what the circumstances.
2006-08-11 06:39:10 · answer #6 · answered by DOINK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ball is in his court now. You've gone far enough. Don't wait for anyone and move on. He may call or he may not.
2006-08-11 06:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you, wait for him. He may be moving furniture for real.
2006-08-11 06:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. It looks like he's sending you signals. He's probably got a girlfriend or married.
2006-08-11 06:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to make plans or call you.
2006-08-11 06:34:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋