When is it too soon to say, I love you. Is it possible theres a time when its to late?

Question

I have known him for three years now we have never dated. Just talked and things, but nothing formal, we have discussed that there are some possibilities in the relationship. But we have never had sex. We talk about living together but have never looked around, we have basically been friends with intentions. so at the end of our conversation at 7:00AM this morning I ended the convo with " okay ! love you bye". and he said what did you just say. SO now Iam a little scared of course he responded with a you to!

Answer 1

I think that it is never too soon to say I love you only if it means a friendship I love you BUT if you aren't dating, you shouldn't say I love you if you mean it like that. I think that you should wait and see if you both start dating and see where it goes. You don't want to ruin your friendship.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Ask him if it was too soon. The direct approach may be the scariest, but it actually works the best and breaks down the most barriers. Say something like this: "This morning I said 'I love you' and you said it back. Now I'm feeling a little silly. Was that okay with you? Did it make you feel weird? "

Have that kind of a conversation. Don't be pushy, but do try to find out where you are in this relationship. You do know that it's a little odd to have talked about living together but to have never dated. Are you sure he isn't just thinking "roommate"? Be prepared in case that's where his thinking is. Usually a guy who is thinking more romantically will ask you out.

You can ask him these type of questions without hurting your friendship as long as you don't overreact or ask him to explain and defend his feelings (or lack of them). Just ask questions and listen to his answers.

Answer 4

well apparently looks like you have real serious relationship coming up....i bet you that guy likes you but watch out cause he might just want to be freinds which could be real bad.....since you are the girl, i believe that you should give him hints that you like him but wait till he comes and asks you....and also make sure the guy isn't just going to use you

Answer 5

Don't make a big deal out of it unless he presses the issue.
Then you're going to have to be honest.
Do you? Or was it just something that you say?

Answer 6

if you really feel it say it because if you don't the next time can be too late.