Im goin to TN where my ex lives for a tennis tourny and look at property. After we broke up we were great friends and we stayed great friends when she got a new b/f who treats her like sh!t and even w/a b/f i would still texting goodmorning to her almost everymorning to make her feel good. She stopped talking 2 me about 2 months ago cuz I stopped texing her in the morning so she stopped talking to me. I know shes thinking of me cuz she deleted m eoff myspace and says how great her b/f is trying to make me jealous. I want to meet and talk w/her in TN at a place where we used to eat at and my plan is not to tell her im goin to TN but just say meet me at the place and ill be there from a certain time and see if she shows up and will talk to me about what happened and why we fell apart. Is that a good idea or should I try something else?
2006-08-11 06:30:15 · 11 answers · asked by Keyon F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Id try it. You'd be a fool Not to try for love!
2006-08-11 06:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if you should do that. I don't want to defer you from doing something your heart tells you to do, but be careful. If she does not show it will be painful. There are a lot of details we don't know about you both so I couldn't say exactly what you should do, but in general if she has been acting that way it does not seem like she would want to talk about your relationship.. I don't want to hurt your feelings, but as someone on the outside bleakly looking in it does not look good. But, it helps to have closure and to talk things through with people you care about that have moved on-if that is the case-and you have not moved on talking to her may help you a great deal. I hope the best for you.
2006-08-11 06:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by missesbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say meet me here at such and such a time, she's going to know that you're in town, so why not just ask her to meet you?
If you want to make it a spur of the moment thing it sounds like an OK idea, but there's always the possibility that she won't be able to make it for some reason or another...
I'd just ask her...
2006-08-11 06:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by jillymack06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very very hard to maintain a friendship with an ex. Often, I have found that it is better to move on and leave the relationship behind me rather than try to maintain a friendship once we have broken up.
It could be that your ex is trying to do that and if you try to reconnect with her it will only make things worse.
She is sending you tons of signals that say "Stay away from me. It's over." It might be time to cut your losses and move on.
2006-08-11 06:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by Tamborine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if she deleted you off of Myspace, and she is singing the praises of her new boyfriend, she isn't trying to make you jealous. I would take that as a sign she's not interested in you anymore. I would find someone else.
2006-08-11 06:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave this woman alone and get a new girlfriend.
Maybe she did all the things you say NOT to make you jealous but becasue she really is over you.
2006-08-11 06:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by bootsjeansnpearls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only answer to this is to move on. There are plenty of other women out there and you need to forget about her and start to focus on yourself and a new girl.
2006-08-11 06:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by john k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r bold enough and so in love to talk to her again. I think u have to whatever u can if she also loves u. all the best
2006-08-11 06:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by ee2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try it it sounds like a good plan to me
2006-08-11 06:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by sweetarts13bnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try somthin else,
spice things up.yeah?
2006-08-11 06:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋