So I am smitten by an Aquarian male who lives 4 hours away from me. I feel silly for even being here but oh well, too late. I am also an Aquarian female and do have a certain level of understanding towards him. We have met one time and every moment right from the very first second of meeting has seemed quite magical. I would like to think that he is also smitten with me but I just cant tell with his behavior. He is quite engaging and very fun to be around but he seems to not come around enough and we have discussed this and he said he would try to do his best and wants to see what works. Some people might say he does not really care and probably has someone else but I just dont believe it or want to believe that. He has asked me to try and understand his challenges. In the past I had discussed wanting to take things to a deeper level and he has said he would like that too. He seems to want everything that I want but his life distracts him and he disappears a lot. Opinions?
2006-08-11 06:22:49 · 11 answers · asked by justwondering 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would just like to add that we had started talking at the end of May. We met end of July and had planned a meeting in August but it fell through and we would both like to get together as soon as we can figure it out. He disappears in the respect that I do not hear anything from him, email, message, phone, although he says he will be in touch and then is not, yet when he is in touch he acts like everything is great and is happy. He is very good to discuss things with me and I can pretty much say anything at all that is on my mind and he will be agreeable and open to discuss and I have yet to experience any negative attitude from him. Everything has been very positive always except for the fact that he tends to disappear, up to two weeks has gone by without a word, and I cant really count on when he will be around. It is a hit or miss and he says he cant make any kind of committment right now with doing things for sure. He is admittedly very physically attracted.
2006-08-11 06:45:12 · update #1
I would just like to add that we had started talking at the end of May. We met end of June and had planned a meeting in August but it fell through and we would both like to get together as soon as we can figure it out. He disappears in the respect that I do not hear anything from him, email, message, phone, although he says he will be in touch and then is not, yet when he is in touch he acts like everything is great and is happy. He is very good to discuss things with me and I can pretty much say anything at all that is on my mind and he will be agreeable and open to discuss and I have yet to experience any negative attitude from him. Everything has been very positive always except for the fact that he tends to disappear, up to two weeks has gone by without a word, and I cant really count on when he will be around. It is a hit or miss and he says he cant make any kind of committment right now with doing things for sure. He is admittedly very physically attracted.
2006-08-11 06:46:02 · update #2
Shoot sorry for the double post, meant to just change that we met at the end of June not the end of July. Anyway ran out of room, he is also extremely mentally attracted to me as well, it isnt just a physical thing although we seem to share a rather outragious time together in ways that amaze me.
2006-08-11 06:47:53 · update #3
XXXXXXXX I think maybe he cares, hopefully he's not just giving you aline just to keep you stringing long. I wonder what distracts him and his reasons for disappearing.
2006-08-11 06:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what do you mean disappear? It seams to me that it is just that you live so far away from each other and you both have your seperate lives so it is probably just a problem in that way. Give him a little longer.
2006-08-11 13:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by sha scrilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means that he is interested in getting into a relationship with you, but before he does he would like to make sure he knows what your really like. if you really like this guy then you should just get to know him anyway you can. but be yourself no matter what, cause if you aren't, the whole relationship will fall apart. good luck with this guy.
2006-08-11 13:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by metalhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either one of two things....
1) he actually does like you and you should give him time to get over the stresses of work ect... ect... ect...
-or-
2) hes a manwhore and he just met with u to **** and since u didnt he's not burning his bridge with you but he's blowing you off..
i hate to be so honest but a lot of us guys... are *****
God Bless
LusTlesS
2006-08-11 13:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by LusTlesS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously he loves you, but he's trying to cope up with things around him 1st and hee how it works between you two...
Give him some time so he can be comfortable with you and don't push too hard...
Good luck for you two!
2006-08-11 13:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by belle_chocolatiere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 hours is too far. A relationship is all about being together, if you're not together you don't have one.
2006-08-11 13:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it means that he is ready to get into a long term relationship with you.
2006-08-11 13:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by emmanuella p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he 1) wants do u (bootycall) or 2) hes cheating
2006-08-11 13:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by sk8rchik57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he's being nice to you so he spend the weekend with you in Yorpance.
2006-08-11 13:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by Shrek'shandsomeidenticaltwin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you
2006-08-11 13:26:12 · answer #10 · answered by cookieluvr2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋