people having unwanted babies, abortions, babies being killed.
adoptions are way too expensive and time consuming, trying to live up to the Lord's commandments by not fornicating, would God answer a prayer, unselfish prayer like someone approaching me that could not afford to keep their baby or was about to throw their baby away and God sent them into my life? I've heard of babies being left on someone's doorstep.
I am a guy that loves children but the right girl hasn't come my way. I could go out and get what I want so much, to be a dad. I know that would be wrong but I am so ready to be a dad.
Am I in fantasy land or should I keep praying and praying. I've looked and looked but no one has been the right one. It's getting very frustrating. I'm trying to keep good faith.
2006-08-11 06:19:30 · 4 answers · asked by fat t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The reason it is so hard for you to find the right woman is because she don't exists. You sound too much into your religious beliefs to see that most people today have had sexual relationships without the commitment of marriage and that is why so many people are put in a dilemma- If you keep running into people who want to rid themselves of their child(ren), why don't you suggest to them that you'll take them into your heart and your life-- That way you both win- they rid themselves and you gain instant fatherhood without demoralizing your values- However you must keep in mind that everyone will be looking at you for a man with children and no woman is seen as perv.
2006-08-11 06:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by BB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the faith, man. If God wants you to have a woman, you will, but only in His good time. God's time is ALWAYS right on time. No, praying for a child that's not yours is not wrong. In today's world, children need all the prayers they can get!
2006-08-11 13:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep praying for what you want. God may have another plan but he knows what you need and want. He may answer your prayers in another way. Remember to listen for God's answer while praying too.
Good luck and God bless you.
2006-08-15 12:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God helps those that help themselves. There are several options for you until you meet the right girl. Foster parenting, Big Brothers Assoc., Boys & Girls club, etc. They all need help. Keep yourself out there and good luck.
2006-08-11 13:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by kwerkykerri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋