Are you going to wait till after you get married to have sex? Or are you going to give into the world and be weak and not strong? To give into pure preasure. You know you are not a losser if you are a virgin when you are 17 or even 40 it just means that you had enough strength to stand up and say no cause you are waiting for that 1 special person.
2006-08-11 06:10:03 · 14 answers · asked by Alyssa s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's good to wait
2006-08-11 06:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by diana l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didnt wait I lost my virginity 10 months before I met my husband I dont wish I had waited until I was married but I do wish I had waited until I met the man I was going to marry and spend the rest of my life with. Totally not a loser if you stay a virgin.
2006-08-11 06:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's a losser?
What if you meet the one special person at age 19 like I did?
2006-08-11 06:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why gave up your virginity due to pressure? That should not be the way. There is no right or wrong n when to have your very 1st sex. Most importantly how u feel at that time. Do it when u really have that feel and not becos ur partner pressure your.
Let the 1st night be the most memorable and enjoyable one, so you will not regret. Be it before or aftre marriage. Doing it due to pressure, you bound to regret.
2006-08-11 06:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by purlip33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to be judgmental, and worthy of you to stick to your beliefs.
We can't say that everyone is conforming to society, because there are many atheists in this world that do not know the sacredness of sex, and for many, it is just a ritual.
As a believer, it is definitely a statement of faith, and a gift of respect to your special one.
2006-08-11 06:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by winnie_1423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this question strikes me as a bit oxymoronic. i myself, am a 19 y/o virgin, and do plan to stay that way, but not necessarily until marriage. i think that it is important to wait for that one special person, however. and thankfully, i have met that one special person, and so i will remain strong in spite of my urges and whenever she is ready, engage in that carnal bliss.
2006-08-11 06:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm never gonna get married, I'm a thug, Virgin 4 Life!
2006-08-11 06:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people really dont look at things the same way. It is a special thing but hell move on and stop thinking about it to much.
2006-08-11 06:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totaly agree but that doesnt change the fact that havin sex bfor marig is ok. Just make sure ur old enuf n ur ready n da person ur doin it with cares about you. it'll b just fine
2006-08-11 06:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by Vypa69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still waiting and I'm 22!
i live in a different culture and i find that a blessing:)
2006-08-11 06:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by chocolataya_rose_84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, actually it really does make you a loser, because you're denying yourself the pleasure of sex because of some silly and immature ideal.
2006-08-11 06:13:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋