i just found out that my man was cheating on me and he said it was cause i was pushing him away is this a good excuse and why couldnt he just leave me first?
2006-08-11 06:01:42 · 34 answers · asked by psycholilblondegirl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMFGosh what a jerk! I so hate when guys do that but they cheat because they aint straight"" enough like they say they are to even tell a girl straight out or play the game the right way girly so dont worry...theres better guys out there..
Angie
2006-08-11 06:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men cheat for the same reasons women do. They are not getting something they need. It could be that the other woman was more than willing to pull him closer, and if you were pushing him away. Well then yes that is a good excuse. But it is also just that a excuse. He should have talked to you and told you that he felt like you were pushing him away. I think he didn't leave you because he still loves you. Now you need to think hard about if you can forgive and forget. Good luck.
2006-08-11 06:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by louisiana_red_rose 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men cheat for the same reasons that women cheat.
There is no good excuse for cheating. Honesty, Integrity, Trust, and Commitment are essential in a relationship.
If was half the man he thinks he is, he would be honest with you.
2006-08-11 06:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by SewHappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd think that's the way it would work, don't you? People cheat because of something inside them that isn't right. He's just using you as an excuse. If he were really concerned about you & the relationship, he'd have come talked to you first. Be done with him. He's not a real man.
2006-08-11 06:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said you're pushing him away, but I don't get how you did that. I'm not even sure why men cheat. It's either they want to try something new, or maybe just want to have two great things at once. He probably didn't leave you because you're special to him or he wants to be a pimp. Of course, I'm sure you can do better than that. Just get over him. IF HE really loved you, he wouldn't have cheated on you! I'm sure you're smart!
2006-08-11 06:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His excuse is pathetic.
When a man cheats, the first thing he will do is put the blame on you. The reality is if he is not happy, "HE" needs to figure out what it is about "HIM" or "HIS" life that he is not happy about. Blaming someone else is always the easy way out for men.
And, if "HE" is not happy, he should have ended the relationship before he decided to go out and cheat. That is the right thing to do.
2006-08-11 06:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no "good" excuse for cheating!!! I found out a month ago that my husband of seven years was cheating on me while I was working full-time and going to school full-time. (He was unemployed for five years.) Cheating is not about you, but about the cheater. He probably has low self-esteem or attachment issues.
2006-08-11 06:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by dawnsakura 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cheating is a character flaw that some men and women have. it sometimes has to do with the values they are taught at home, and sometimes it is in the genes to be permiscuous. whatever the case is it is in him to cheat and it was not something you did. there are all kinds of excuses for poor actions...for example i would not have had to steal if i wasnt poor....i wouldnt have had to rape her if she would have said yes...i wouldn't have lied to you if the truth if i was not trying to protect you from the awful truth....the fact is thatthe reason he cheated on you is not important...the fact that he betrayed your trust is... in my opinion he will do it again f you take him back...all men are not liars and cheaters...there is someone else out there for you.
2006-08-11 06:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by jen4802051709 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a classic crock of S*&% he's telling you!! He's just trying to turn the blame onto you! No excuse should be good enough to excuse cheating! Leave him! He's playing you..let him cheat on someone else!!!
2006-08-11 06:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all a man can cheat for many reasons:
One reason:1. he just has no morals or fear of answering to a higher authority (God)!
2.you don't take care of your appearance and he's starting to lose interest in you because of your lifestyle.
3. you are not creative and he craves a different and exciting life.
2006-08-11 06:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by freshcalmbreeze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋