Irecently met someone and he's wonderful but who isnt in the begining? and I want to make him wait because they say guys respect u more when you make them wait!!! looking for intellegent answers only!!! thanx
2006-08-11 05:57:22 · 24 answers · asked by ButterfliKissus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just wait until you feel like you are ready. If this is real you will know when it is time. Yes, if he cares for you and respects you he will wait as long as you make him but don't be fooled. Some men seem as if they are ok with this request becasue they are getting it from somewhere else anyway. Your heart will lead the way. GOOD LUCK
2006-08-11 06:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by LADY H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you are comfortable enough to sleep with him. It depends on how you define your dating. Are ya'll going out twice a week or going more often. If it is more often I would say a month or two. Some people only give it a week, and they work out just fine. I personally have never slept with anyone less than six months.
2006-08-11 06:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by Crazychick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you feel about this person. Do you feel this relationship could go somewhere? If he really like you you can have sex with them whenever and things would not change. But I would say you should wait at least a month before sleeping with him. But you do what yo u feel.
2006-08-11 06:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by jaria21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only do it if you can feel comfortable with your decision. There really is no time line to have sex. When people put a time to something intimate they cheapen it and the relationship usually doesn't last long afterwards
2006-08-11 06:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by miracle man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always used a 7 date rule. Works for me, anyways. If a guy is worth it, he'll wait, plus by that time, you'll know if he's relationship material or not.
2006-08-11 06:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know his name? Good, then go for it....
Seriously, you'll feel it when the time is right. No one can tell you when you are emotionally ready to take things to the next level. Spend time with him, get to know him, and when you feel lost in the moment, go with it. Nothing could be better than spontaneous sex...
2006-08-11 06:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is up to you. I have been dating my bf for four months and have not had sex with him. My personal time frame would be to wait until I am married. For yourself, you can discuss it with him or just abstain.
2006-08-11 06:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!! keep your self for your husband someday, even if you are not a virgin, its never to late, not to mention std's and pregnacy!!!!! even if you wait he still won't respect you!!!!! sex is meant only in the institution of marriage. people are never who you think they are until youve been married awhile. you don't have to have sex to have a wonderful dating relationship, if he can't wait, hes not the one!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sex isn't all there is in a relationship!! and most kids can't handle the emotional weight of sex and never stay together. i think you need to learn some "RESPECT" for yourself, for who you are and learn what a relationship is without sex.
2006-08-11 06:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by kini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The intelligent thing to do is to wait until you are married to have sex.
2006-08-11 05:59:55 · answer #9 · answered by heartforhelping 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it all depends on the people and the relationship. I don't think I should be the one to tell you when to have sex. I think you and your partner should decide that.
2006-08-11 06:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by Zef_66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋