2006-08-11 05:44:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am not going to sneak out again though. Both times I was with Brooke and now we arent allowed to be friends again.
2006-08-11 05:52:53 · update #1
I know it was stupid people. I have heard that all before. I feel really bad for it. She gave me all the freedom I wanted and I do this. So I know what I did was wrong.
2006-08-11 05:56:20 · update #2
She just doesnt allow me to be a teenager. She let me go to friends and stuff but never let me just hang out with them. I dont have a curfew.
2006-08-11 05:57:45 · update #3
I am a teenager also and lost my parents trust on most things, but, I'm earning it back.
Just do what your told, don't break any rules and show you mom you know better. And indeed, don't do it again.
2006-08-11 07:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by The Imaginer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a very necessary factor in any relationship. Without trust...there is rust! If someone betrayed you,,lied to you, broke trust....what would it take for you to accept them back openly with total respect again? A parents love is unconditional..it really is.but that does not mean you should abuse that love or take advantage of it. Somehow a betrayal between a parent and child is even more devastating because of that
special" bond.
You can regain your mothers trust, if that is what you honestly want..or is it that you want her to feel she can trust you so you can go on doing what you wish undetected? A sincere apology is in order and a promise to "try" your very best to do all you can to get her respect and trust back again. Ask her what she requires for this to happen.Maybe she feels like she needs to nail your windows shut or monitor your phone calls so you do not have involvement with your fellow "escapee". Come to some terms with her that will be agreeable to both of you and stick to them.I think sometimes mothers want to mostly blame the bad things that happen on the people that their kids are associating with because they dont want to admit that their children are capable of any kind of deceit towards them. Take the responsibility for your actions and behavior.Let your mother know it was your choice to sneak out, and your friend was just there with you.Maybe she will reconsider letting you share time with your friend again while you work on earning her trust back.
2006-08-11 06:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by dynamitewoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Earn it back. One piece at a time. Be where you say your going to be, do what you say you are going to do. And when your not, make sure you don't get caught. Be smart your mom probably did all the things your doing now, when she was a kid so she knows the tricks.
2006-08-11 05:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by Tara R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i can honestly say that you messed up but you should start by apologizeing to your mom by saying it meanfully shell beleive you, also tell her that itll never happen again and that you wanna earn her trust back and your gonna anyway you can show her your determination and u may wann throw in that it bothers you that she doesnt trust you and that your gonna change that.from there just wait and be patient shell come around beleoive me
2006-08-11 06:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by skflaramee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shame on you for laying your trust on the line. It may be difficult NOW for your mother to trust you again.. Thus, you have to gain HER trust again....Actually, not only trust now but also credibility also.
Now.. YOu have.... MUST talk to here person to person and explain what you did was wrong and inconsiderate of her(your mother's) wishes and that you would like for her to renew her confidence in you.
2006-08-11 05:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually that is one of the good things about having a mom is that she will WANT to trust you again it is just up to you when she decided to trust you do NOT let her down
2006-08-11 05:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by jeanette98070 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get her trust is to earn it. It will take some time and you need to stop doing things to make her distrust you.
2006-08-11 05:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're at the beginning of a long road. You don't "get" people to trust you. Trust is earned. So, be trustworthy.
2006-08-11 05:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you regain her trust, she may change her mind. Follow her curfew and try to behave and then it will get better.
2006-08-11 05:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you snuck out of the house twice, why should your mother trust you? You'll just do it again.
2006-08-11 05:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋