I had a girl friend right.... but then we broke up but then my best frine (kinda like my brother) is going out with her now.... I think it's wrong and it hurted at first but Should I go out with His Ex because they use to love each other jus like I used to love my ex.... it's confusing but i need help!!!
2006-08-11 05:37:13 · 22 answers · asked by Yung Prince 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but the thing is..... I like his ex and i've liked her since they been goin out but i never made a move because he's like a brother to me
2006-08-11 05:41:43 · update #1
and another thing is...... when we broke up we still liked each other! we didnt break up because we wanted to we broke up cuz we had to!!! ( told u it was confusing)
2006-08-11 05:43:05 · update #2
That was pretty inconsiderate of your best friend. He shouldn't have done that to you. However, I don't think you should date his ex girlfriend just to get back at him. First of all, if wouldn't be fair to that girl, to be going out with her just to make someone mad. Just think how bad you would feel to find out someone was doing that to you! Also, it will not really end up making you feel better in the end.
The best thing you can do is find someone you really like to go out with, and that will help you move on.
Have you told your friend how bad this has made you feel? I'm sure you did. I'll bet when they break up he'll come back apologizing to you, but not before.
Sounds like he isn't as great a friend as you thought.
Maybe he's just immature.
Good luck with the ladies!
2006-08-11 05:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by lorgurus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she broke up with you, then maybe the two of you weren't suppose to end up together. The only reason you should date someone is because you have similar likes.
How do you think the other girl would react to find out that the only reason you started dating her was for revenge, not because you really liked her?
2006-08-11 12:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by una_jet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 4 one thing your so called bf/brother is nothing but your bf/brother b/c someone who is that close to you or really care 4 u wouldn't do that to there boy or what not so i say u need to set down and have a real good talk to yo boy and tell him what's up and how u feel and hopefully y'all can come to some kind of conclusion. So good luck and god bless and keep us posted.
2006-08-11 12:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by LadyBoss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you shouldn't just go out with his ex girl because he is with yours. Thats just wrong. Do you really think that he would do that to hurt you? Really think about that now... Would he really do something like that? I know it hurts, and trust me I do, but you have to move on. Not with his ex girl, because then that may ruin ur relationship with your friend, or maye even start a conflect between you to. Move on....
I hope I helped you...
Good luck!
2006-08-11 12:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley Babi15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why PLAY his ex-girlfriend? She has done NOTHING to you! Let it go and think of why you broke up and now he has to deal with her crap!!! Consider him a good friend for taking her off your hands! Go out, enjoy others and find someone who has not been around the block!!! Good luck!
2006-08-11 12:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by doereen69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go out with the girl if you dont like her 'cause that wouldnt be fair to her. If you havent talked to him already about the situation then you should try that. If you have spoken to him then, honestly, there's not much you can do. Although it may not seem like it now, you'll get over it and grow to accept it.
2006-08-11 12:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by garichick4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look yung prince
you should not go out with your friends EX Hey what if you do then a hole lot of things going to happen you not going to be boy's no more you going to get in to figth with him just don't be single.
2006-08-11 16:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go out with his ex unless you like her and if your doing it just to get back at him i wouldn't, just think to yourself 1 woman down 100 to go and keep your head up.
2006-08-11 12:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do what he did. You can prove that you are a bigger man by not dating his ex. There are all kinds of woman out there that would be happy to date you.
2006-08-11 13:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deal with one thing at a time guy...get over your ex...if you loved her, then wouldn't you want her to be happy...don't date ol' boys ex for revenge...that's wrong...not only would it not be justified by your bff dating your ex...but you would be adding to your problems with bringing someone else into your situation...talk to your best man...let him know you were upset, hurt, pissed off whatever...shake his hand and move on...too many females out there to cry over someone who probably isn't worried about you...plus, is this chic worth you losing your best friend/bro?
2006-08-11 12:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by sweet_latina830 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋