2006-08-11 05:34:04 · 21 answers · asked by Lamb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, darling. Wait. 13 is much too young. i can't tell you what to do, but I can tell you that birth controll is not 100% effective, and ask you if you think you are ready to be a parent. there is always a chance of pregnancy. Are you ready to take that risk?
Also, do you love him? Sex is the ultimate expression of love between two people. Are you ready to give yourself up for him? Will he respect you if you give yourself over? Are you ready for teh changes your relationship will take if you two have sex?
Please, dear. Wait. If not until marriage, then as long as you can. And if you decide to, use protection agaisnt pregnancy AND Sexually transmitted diseases. Also, I think you should talk to your mom, dad, or an adult you feel comfortable talking with. Hopefully your boyfirend isn't pressuring you. If he loves you enough to have sex, then he should understand if you want to wait. Understand?
2006-08-11 05:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Junior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 20:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely. You must know more things about sex to get a strong decision. And I think you're so young to have sex with your BF. I'm a boy but I'm sorry to say this: some of the boys want their GF just for having sex. I don't agree their minds.
2006-08-11 05:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by Nima 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait. How old is your boyfriend? Do you think he has had sex with anyone else? Do you think he would have sex with anyone else if given a chance? Do you think he will stay with you the rest of your life? What makes you think, he thinks, you are any different from anyone else with which he has had sex. ... all important questions. Your body is a special gift. Don't give it away to quickly or easily. There is more to sex than the physical.
2006-08-11 05:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion yes you should definately wait. I lost my virginity when I was 15 and I still regret not waiting longer. Losing your virginity is very special to a girl and you want to make sure you give it away to a guy that truely loves you. If you're having doubts then you shouldn't because you should only have sex if you're 100% sure that you're ready. Trust me, if you have sex with him now, then when your 20 you'll look back and regret that he was your first. And in any case if you do have sex with him please use a condom and get on birthcontrol.
2006-08-11 05:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah! of course you should wait! think about it... you wake up the next morning and find out you've got all these things going on. std's, hiv...a baby?! yeah... the smartest thing to do is to wait. especially since you're only 13! i know you may hate hearing this, cuz i know i hate hearing it 4m my parents, but, wait til you're older! to be a parent at like 13 or 14 sucks. you wont be able to do all these kid things that you would've enjoyed before you were a parent! and besides, do you think your boyfriend would help with the baby? if you think about the bad things, you'll be convinced not to do it. dont even bother thinking of good sides, cuz there arent any!
2006-08-11 06:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you change your friend.He is not at all good for you.As you are very young it is not at all good for you to have sex.For every thing there is a time.You should wait till that time.Extra maritel relations always leads to somany mental and physical and social problems. Before doing anything you just think of your innocent parents.
2006-08-11 05:54:53 · answer #7 · answered by Padma A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u should definatly. How do u know if he has a disease or something. Trust me if you do then u will regret it. I have heard it too much from other people. Im the same age as you. I would dump him in a heart beat. Hopefully you will take my advice and wait
2006-08-11 05:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by Goalie Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur 13 and if ur bf just wants sex u should talk him and tell that ur not ready and not old enough(which ur not) and if does not like the idea or respect what u want then it's not a boyfriend. So think about that!
2006-08-11 05:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by Leomi M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long you been with this guy???
He sounds like a creep, if he had any respect for you at all he wouldn't ask you for sex.
Making Love is a special time.
Wait and it'll only get better!!! I promise.
Besides You will always remember your first time, do you want to remember him for ever???
2006-08-11 05:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by razza raych 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋