we have known each other for a year, and when we first met, he told me like liked me a lot and thought i was really hott and everything, but i wasnt interested. now, i like him and he doesnt seem to have mutual feelings. i dont want it to be awkward. but im still wondering if maybe he has slight interest in me?! do i give up on him?
2006-08-11 05:17:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you've let him know, and he hasn't done anything, move on. He may have feelings, but he obviously doesn't want to act on them.
2006-08-11 05:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Lady, I feel U have been paidback in Ur own coin. When he liked U, U didnt like him,and now when he is apperently adapted being away from U, U suddenly feel his absence.
So, Its not true that U never liked him,the truth is that U realised that very late. U failed toUnderstand. Simillarly, It may also be actualfact that this time again,U R failing to understand him, may be,a call from U would bring him more closer than ever. So, dont go by ur feelings, Just get on and be clear about his actual feelings towards U. U can then decide what is the best way for U to follow.
Men, I feel, R just blind in love,they just need the permission, Go an grant him the permission to say aloud that U R always his. If he still loves U,he wouldnever loose that oppertunity,Try Out baby , Wish U best of LUCK !!
2006-08-11 13:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by Prasun B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure u should give up. I'm in da same situation as yours. I confessed to him,but he still has a little feelings but both of us aren't that sure anymore. It's a sad ending,gal. Trust me. We're avoiding each other now. But to think fr a better point view, at least i don't have 2 be confussed and make a fuss whether he still likes me or not. I can focus on every day chores n most importantly my studies. Things became normal again before u knew it. It's sad sometimes when u bump into him esp when u're in the same school. But let's say that's the quickest way for me to setlle my ordeal and my burden once and for all. Time to move on. So, if u really want an answer, get it. If u think u can really forget about him. Then, forget about him. Think on the bright side. Think not wat u've lost but wat u've gained. Go gal!!
2006-08-11 12:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theres no reoson to give up on him i mean your obviusly both still friends and mabe it might be best to keep it that way so whatever you do dont give up on him yet you could let him know how you feel but i dont recomend it i mean if he doesnt feel the same way it would not only make an awkward situation but it may also make your friendship weird and confuseing.just be yourself around him and dont act fake,guys hate that
oh and you might wanna do something like take up a new hobby or get into a sport to get your mind off of him for a little while, just dont ignore him hell know somethings up
hope i helped
2006-08-11 12:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by skflaramee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well see if he feels the same way he did then if not then you have to just move on. I had something like that happen to me before there was the guy in one of my classes he liked me and was trying hard to get with me. But I wasn't trying to have it go down mainly because I didn't want to date someone that I would have to see everyday if the relationship didn't work out. After a while he stopped trying and then I be gain to have a thing for him and I tried everything to get his attention but nothing worked. So I moved on and I was hurt but it's life we have to learn for our mistakes.
2006-08-11 12:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how much do you like him. I feel true love means not just waiting on one chance, life is about giving more than one chances.
Also theres quite a chance that he might be looking out if you are really interested in him. Best way to find out is to have a honest one to one discussion. It always helps .. Good luck
2006-08-11 12:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by jash.casanova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be u use to look good at tht time but now he dsnt like u thn u shd exprss ur feelings in such a way tht he ll get impress n start liking u u shd pass letters can express urself n tell him tht i like u n love tht no one can love u tht much.
2006-08-11 12:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you only like the thrill of the chase you only want him when he doesnt want you. Move on and find someone who likes those kinds of games.
2006-08-11 12:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to be friendly but let him make the next move. If it happens great, if not you can still be friend.
2006-08-11 12:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by Madeamove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...give up on him..what goes around comes around..what goes up must come down..now who's crying desiring to come back to me..heard of that?
its just that things dont work the way we always want them to...
2006-08-11 12:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by too pretty to handle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋