if somebody cheating on you do you feel it?

Question

i really need to know

Answer 1

XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX yes, it hits you like a bolt of lightning. Take care of it now, you deserve better. XXXXXX

Answer 2

As a female mose women have what they call "woman's intuition" so yes you can "feel" it. It feels like no matter what that person says or does something just doesn't sit right with you and you can't get it off of your mind. Sometimes there is evidence of cheating that we women may try to ignore as well. Then ther are times when it's just a feeling.
What I suggest you do is ask questions! Not neccessarily at the same time but ask a lot of questions. Then after asking so many questions go back to the original questions and see if you get the same answers because when people lie they tend to forget what lie they told.
Hope this helps.

Answer 3

Yes you feel it. But just because you might find out that he is cheating doesn't mean you have to give up or walk away from a long term relationhips. Talk with them first to see what is the problem and is there a way to work things out and if not then move on

Answer 4

I wish I knew the answer.

I think yes, because they act different. When a guy really likes you, he'll do anything to be around you. He'll want to talk to you, be with you, and call you. They also will seem like they are somewhere else, or just not complete.
With my ex-boyfriend, I had dreams about him cheating on me. I ignored them, thought they were just dreams. I had terrible feelings like he was cheating on me every single day and after a year and 10 months i find out that he did indeed cheat on me. Trust your instincts-they may not be what you want them to be but take it from me-it's better then your heart broken.

Answer 5

yes, i would say there are plenty of signs and or indicators that clue u in. a woman's intuition is very strong too, and we are quick to piece things together and see if they *fit*. if they don't, boys & girls have a lot of explaining to do! :)

for example, i had dated a guy for a few months and it was going SO Awesome. i thought he was really great guy; met his parents and family and some friends, he was sweet and nice and cute, and treated me fairly well, he asked me to go out almost every day, like 6 days out of the week. so i felt like he was into me, and i was totally into him. however, after awhile, he seemed to want more.. in terms of physical relationship. and i kept asking him, so.... "am i ur girlfriend?" and he kept saying he didn't want labels right now, he wasn't sure.... and i knew that he wanted to get married early so was looking for "the one.". so i told him we could date other people, as long as i know about it. and he said "no, i don't want us to grow apart." and i felt so special, right? well, we got closer, and he kept wanting to get *closer*. so i kept bringing it up, and started getting fed up a bit. finally, at my birthday party when i was gonna introduce him to all my friends, he COMPLETELY ruined it. was a total jerk, was rude, obnoxious, checking out my friends, etc. i was totally embarrassed. so i broke up w/ him.

turns out, he planned it. he acted like that because he was such a coward, he wanted me to break it off. and THEN, the worst part was i learned from a friend that he had been seeing other girls BEHIND my BACK. that one day out of the week i couldn't meet up w/ him? he would see other girls on that ONE day. can u believe that? he lied to my face, and i believed him!! i was SO angry...

anyways, moral of the story is... if a guy's actions do not add up to his words, and u start feeling suspicious about ANYTHING... most likely there will be a problem in the relationship. u know why? cuz if u don't have trust, u dont' have ANYTHING. that's it.. u have to be able to trust eachother in order to truly work on a relationship..... so good luck, trust ur judgement, and if a guy makes u feel sad or nervous or insecure for WHATEVER reason, even if he's not cheating, it still means he's not doing all he can to make u feel good and happy and positive. and a relationship SHOULD make u happier, healthier, and want to be a Better person. not make u feel worse about urself.

Answer 6

You may think they are cheating on you but unless you actually witness it you can't be sure. You are feeling anxiety over something in your relationship though and need to think hard and talk with your partner about it. Try to get to the root of the problem and solve it.

Answer 7

You'd be able to see some signs such as your mate distancing themselves from you, picking fights for no legitimate reason, and not wanting to be intimate.

Whatever you do, don't go hunting for evidence. It'll only screw with your mind and if you're significant other isn't cheating, it could cause a lack of trust on their part.

Answer 8

The mere fact that you are even asking that question means deep down you damn well they are...It sucks, but move on as fast as you can, the more you learn about the cheating, the worse it feels. Greener pastures girl...onward and upward

Answer 9

My sons father cheated on me yaers ago and i clearly remember that night. I was at my moms house and all of a sudden i had a sick feeling in my stomach so i decided to go home early. My mom said i was crazy but i insisted on checking and guess what!!!!!! My best friend was sitting on top of him to greet me when i got home. Go with your instinct and check it out....Worst case scenario, your wrong and you have to apologize to your man and give him a good b.j

Answer 10

Since you're asking, i'm assuming that you suspect something.
You tend to feel this uncertainty and friction between you and him, right? Do you have insecurities about yourself? If so that may also be a factor that makes you feel that way. Bring up yourself esteem and question him, if he continues to pull away, leave him.

Answer 11

yes by little hints that he gives. Not calling asmuch giving you the cold shoulder etc ect... But in the end lies unravel themselves and truth is revealed. Just keep reminding yourself if it is over with you two that whoever he ends up with will have to deal with him cheating and lieing on her. Stay strong....