I am so completely in LOVE that I have a hard time focusing at work. I think about him all the time, I daydream about what I want to do with him. I hate leaving his side. I miss him all day.
2006-08-11 05:08:16 · 15 answers · asked by katiej47 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, my life does not revolve around him. I just miss him while I am at work because who likes being at work? Wouldn't you rather be with your boyfriend?
2006-08-11 05:14:36 · update #1
I assume you are still with him and there is no break up involved.....And on that note, thats not missing him honey!!! Thats butterflies and awe. In which case(assuming u r with him) dont try to get rid of that feeling!!! Embrace it....It doesnt last forever!!!
2006-08-11 05:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by eve11en 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i had this experience... missing my boyfriend badly, thinking of him every second daydream from morning to evening.. this feeling was last for few months. He was the same too.
Now, i have been with him for 2 years and seems like everything has changed. He will hardly ever call me, not like before. We are staying together right now but there are many things that i found really changed. It is very sad but I can't do much.
He has to go for outstation work for few days in a month and sometimes he will not call me at all, he told me that he is too busy. I dont want to argue with him because I still love him as much as before and the feeling is still as strong as before.
Even I know him for 2 years already but when he was not around I really miss him, I never know if he is still loving me as much as before but i how i wished he does.
Girl will always have the feeling of missing their love ones, but for man the feeling like what you have now is just for temporary. You will not be their main priority like the very beginning of the relationship. Some man changed once married too. I hope that your relations with the man that you love will not turn colourless, maintain the feeling of both of you. Love is the most beautiful thing if you can maintain it.
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2006-08-11 12:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl get a grip! It's okay to be in love but don't let it consume your life you have to still be able to function with life. I once was in love like that and it cost me a lot cause I couldn't focus at work either and I ended up losing my job and I was doing bad in college. Then to top it off it was to much for the person I was with to handle cause men don't like to feel smothered nor have a needy girl wanting to be around them all the time hating to leave them. So stop it now cause it might end up hurting you down the road. Good Luck !!!!
2006-08-11 12:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by liliw24 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,well well.It seems that you are experiencing your first love. That's the usual feeling of someone in love but spending your all day through thinking an daydreaming doesn't seem right though I agree with you if you will say its beyond your control. Anyway you got to realize that you got other works to do. Do your work with his inspiration rather than spending it thinking of him not doing anything. Keep yourself busy for sometime focussing your attention to what you are doing.Well,it is easier to say than to do.
2006-08-11 12:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ lani s 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u just try to do something special like u join hobby classes or cooking classes or any games like tennis bascketball or any game tht u like the most.
dance on rocking songs.
read novels but not love ones some suspence once.
or u do the whole work of house.
u ll definately concentrate on those above things so u ll not get timr to think about him oka.
or one more funny idea u can smell laughing gase so tht the whole day u keep on laughing n ll get time to think abt him.or iron clothes once twise u ll burn the colthes but not third time becaz u ll get scolding.
while in the nite u can read any fashion magezine or super satrs magezine or u can also read news paper.
2006-08-11 12:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats not good you need to occupied your mind on other things. The day that you break up your going to feel like its the end of the world because all you've done is think of him and made him YOUR world.
2006-08-11 12:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by ME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww thats so cute. I feel the same way about my bf. All you have to do is FOCUS on ur career..and I have to FOCUS on my studies. Focus, focus, focus ..its the only way..and keep yourself busy. You can keep some time aside for him like you could talk to him at lunch time and on your way back home. Spend quality time with him on weekends..love him like he is the world's cutest thing. And at all other times..try to be busy with your work coz career is important as well.
2006-08-11 12:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry to break this to you.. that feeling will pass.. Must understand that this is a normal phase that you are going through. But remember, he is NOT your life, you do not live for him. Take care of yourself first. It's ok to day dream, but get your priority straight.
2006-08-11 12:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by mom_of_ndm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i just asked a question almost exactly like this. tell your self that you can only do what you want with him if you work. you need the money so stay concentrated. keep your mind on your work. think about him latter.
2006-08-11 12:17:10 · answer #9 · answered by chelsea k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to occupy your time as much as possible. if this doesn't work, keep in mind the fact that it's wrong to be so attached to him...imagine:what if you are not so important to him..would you really want to jeopardize you job for him?
2006-08-11 12:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by anca 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋