This man I was seeing decided to end the relationship...it wasn't my choice...we agreed to stay in touch and we continued to contact each other via email and chat. I am having a person health crisis and really need the support of a good friend. For the last couple of weeks he has not returned emails or IM's. How should I handle this....I thought I could count on him...at least for friendship and support through this difficult time....
2006-08-11 05:03:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would bet, that he knew about your illness and that is the reason he broke up with you...
Oh, he may "say" its not, but, some guys cant handle situations such as that... Where it may "take his time" away from him, if he has to spend it with you, nursing you to health...
Obviously he is selfish, if he doesnt return your emails and calls, so, consider this "over", and turn to your circle of close friends and family, as "they" will be your true support, in any crisis...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-08-11 05:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry you are having a health problem. I doesn't look as if you will be able to count on this guy. I hope you have someone else you can confide in. I think you are just going to have to forget about him if he is not returning emails.
Good luck to you.
2006-08-11 12:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if he is not there when you need him the most, then he is not a friend. At least he is not a friend worth having. I used to be that type of friend (only there for the good times). He could change, but it takes time to overcome and be a better person.
2006-08-11 12:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by The Princess of Pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to break it to you but being "friends" after a relationship ends almost never works. Its clear he doesnt want to keep in contact with you especially if he knows what you're going thru. He is not your friend he is your ex. Talk to a true friend that you didnt have a relationship with.
2006-08-11 12:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never count on ex's. he probably started dating someone else. All that "friendship" crap is to get some comfort in between new relationship. Move on! You need to find some real friends.
2006-08-11 12:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by mom_of_ndm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest just lay low for awhile, maybe something is going on with him too. you don't want to jump too soon and then find out he wasn't neglecting you; only caught up in his own problems and didn't want to weigh you down. wait and see if he tries to contact you after he quits hearing from you like he is used to. then question where he has been or Wat's up...Good Luck
2006-08-11 12:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by AK47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he's busy by having a crisis himself, or hes trying to teach you a lesson by not responding to ims or emails. lose his name and change emails ;)
2006-08-11 12:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by totallyinnocent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a reason to stop communicating with him. Sure, he should be there for you, but that doesnt mean you should cut off all contact.
2006-08-11 12:07:33 · answer #8 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be away and have forgotten to tell you. emial him once more asking him why he hasnt replied yet then continue to check email but dont send him any until he replies to you
2006-08-11 12:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by SlimShadyGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear tha. stay strong maybe hes having difficulties too and doesnt want to get you worried. if not then hes a jerk
2006-08-11 12:08:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋