i really like this guy and he says he loves me and that he does value me. Should i hook back up with him or should i wait a little longer and make him realize what he lost? when we broke up he said he didnt want to lose me. he lives in nicaragua & i live in louisiana. he wont get his visa till september and he said he wants to come visit me but what if i have a new b/f by that time, he said whats the point of him coming. so he wants to remain as a couple with me. so should we hook back up or should i make him wait so that he can learn to value me? Guys, what do yall think? Girls, What should i do?
2006-08-11 05:00:08 · 11 answers · asked by traverspatsy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES GIRL go and Get Yo M an I've been in this same situation and now our relationship couldnt be any better
2006-08-11 05:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by Thickness 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
been there done that. if you go back you will get more of what you left. guys never get the message. once a guy starts treating you like that it wont stop. if he was going to value you he would have done it in the begining. so find a new respectiful man. it will be hard to do this cause most men are like this guy. so just chill till mr. right comes along.
2006-08-11 05:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust your initial gut instinct that he doesn't value you. Don't second guess yourself because of his sweet talking. If you insist on getting back together, don't play games with him by waiting. If you do that, your bound to lose him all together.
2006-08-11 05:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by anazagarus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
drop him like a bad habit, move on. If it didn't work the first time it will never work. People dont change ever. You can find someone in your area
2006-08-11 05:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to go back with someone you already had? You broke up with him for a reason for, right! Don't be stupid!!! Think of all the bad things that happenend when you were with him!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-18 19:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop him. He just wants a reason to come here. Find someone in your own city.
2006-08-11 05:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, the distance is killing you. second, it's better if you stick with your first choice...if at one moment it seemed to you that you are not valued enough, that it must be true. i believe that it would be better if you found someone that lives at least on the same continent as you...
2006-08-11 05:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by anca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u an idiot
make him wait and he will find some1 else untill u come round
2006-08-11 05:04:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1: Start talking to him
2: Try to flirt with him
3: Ask him out to go over to your house
4: Talk about how fun it was to be with him
5: ( Next day ) Call him and talk to him for a while and then, when you feel you think he likes you again, ASK HIM IF YOU WANT TO BE B.F G.F AGAIN!!!
Hope it works out! : D
2006-08-11 05:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by MyCuriousGorge724 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Drop him for good
2006-08-18 20:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋