my so-called boyfriend knows i cannot stand smoking in the house, so while i am at work, he smokes like a freight train. i get home and whole house stinks. hes usually passed out in bed or on couch, i go into the home office, and i see where he lit a cig and forgot about it, thankfully it never caught anything on fire. he does this over and over. i am to the point of telling him to move, but i love him. or least i think i do.
2006-08-11 04:57:25 · 10 answers · asked by totallyinnocent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a lack of respect, is what he's doing. If he can't get off his *** and step outside to have a smoke, then he doesn't give a hoot about you or your belongings. Sounds like he's trying to push your buttons.
2006-08-11 05:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by ceesvamp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u should tell him not to smoke in the house and then if he doesn't stop this time say if u don't stop u are moving out and we are going to be over and if her really respect's u then he will stop if he doesn't stop take all of his cloths and through them out the window it works!
2006-08-11 05:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXIt is not love it's disrespect. He doesn't repect you or your personal property. Have you smell your sofa, laundry, home after a cigerette. It reeks!!!!! If he loves you he wouldn't disrespect your privacy and do this behind your back. You'd better set out some drastic measure or someday you will come home to a fire or worse, be in one. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-08-11 05:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is extremely disrespectful to you, and to the relationship as well. if he can't do a simple thing like stepping outside for 3 minutes to smoke a cigarette, then he is definately not worth the time and effort you are putting into this relationship.
2006-08-11 05:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is a moocher sit him down and talk to him about the situation if he keeps doing it only warn him once again befor you kick him out if he can't follow your rules then he needs to get his own house for his own rules.
2006-08-11 05:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Beverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just likes to tease u and get a rise out of you. Just act like u dont care and he will stop
2006-08-11 05:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One question ......would it be funny to find yourself homeless???Get rid of the lazy bum,he has no respect for you at all.you should be glad he's just a b/f and not a husband (((kick him out))).
2006-08-11 05:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. here's what u do (my brother does this to me all the time) pretend it doesn't bother you. he will get bored and stop doing it relativley fast. or u could do something that he hates back to him :p they both work
i think he thinks that u r cute when u r mad
so its possible for love
2006-08-11 05:01:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is doing this because he thinks you're cute when you're mad. That's very possible
2006-08-11 05:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by APB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is either a) he's just seeking yr attention or b)he wants OUT.
2006-08-11 05:03:20 · answer #10 · answered by me_imah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋