I dated this guy and then he broke up with me because people started to say stuff about hin & i. but he nevered called me. so what would you do???
2006-08-11 04:50:14 · 17 answers · asked by Amanda Pearl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea, actually I have. I met a guy in 9th grade then I switched schools and we lost contact, and dated a couple of yrs later and then were just friends then we dated again. but in the end I married someone else......If you love him don't lose contact with him...u'll regret it later
2006-08-11 04:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by jojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. Guys who stop getting attention suddenly become insecure and then they realize their errs and will figure out that they have to call you if they are ever going to be on a date again for the rest of their lives. In the panic, that's what they actually believe. It's called: insecurity. Because most males are not taught to understand their emotions and feelings, they get insecure extremely easy.
Guys have huge egos so you attract them by making them doubt the validity of the great spirit that they think they are. If you dwell on how great they are or keep trying to ask him out, he'll dismiss you as less than him because in his mind, he already "knows he is hot."
You counter his confident and egotistical line of reasoning when given HIM a reason to "prove" that HE is so special. And when he is placed in that situation, he'll go out of his way to prove to you that he is special, including asking you out on that second date.
Most guys are like this. Not me though. I'm special. See, now I'm acting egotistical.
2006-08-11 11:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and say that your just touching base with him to see what's been going on and then hit unto a subject you both like and from there make a small but casual date for some small talk and then go from there.
Happy Hunting.
2006-08-11 11:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by Angus. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay.. If it didn't work out the first time.. there is a very good chance it's not going to work this time..
Let it go.. There are way to many guys out there to start repeat dating
2006-08-11 11:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by dbrady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I would and I have dated a guy twice...
we never broke up the second time and got married in 1996, still married today...
every situation is different,none will have the exact same results as someone elses...
so just be carefull...
2006-08-11 11:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I dated once before and it just didn't work out with our job schedules. We never stopped talking or being friends though...and then one day he helped me move a TV and we got back together
2006-08-11 11:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by chelsetoots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say hes not good enough for u, because if he didn't have the decency to call you then he doesn't care, u need a man that treats you right not a loser.
2006-08-11 11:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could give him a second chance but you maybe could say no and see what happens after that
2006-08-11 11:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by gus13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Any REAL man doesn't care what OTHER PEOPLE think or say about their woman. If he wanted you he would have called.
NEXT!
2006-08-11 11:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Saffire♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u date a guy once then
2006-08-11 11:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by jaxxie1982 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋