I am waiting for that one guy, (im not desperate lol) . Iv been blessed with losers all my life and its time to change.
2006-08-11 04:49:03 · 27 answers · asked by Mapitsa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To avoid the losers, figure out what attracted you to them. There is some need in you that they fulfill. If you find you are always attracted to a certain type of guy and they aren't what you think you want, then you need to do some soul searching and figure out what you find attractive in them.
For example, you may find the rugged kind of guy attractive, and in your area the onle guys of that type are gang members. Then you have to figure out what about the rugged guys you like. Is it that they are "bad boys" or is it that they are active, or is it that they are rebels, or is it that they are athletic. Once you have that figured out, you can find another type of guy that fits your bill.
2006-08-11 05:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there is a soul mate for everyone... I just don't think many of us find them; or recognize them when we do because we're so wrapped up in finding what we "want".
I've seen love at first sight seveal times. And I believe it happens more often than we think. Too many people thnk that they have "fallen into lust" and not love.
My best friend in college was a "confirmed bachelor". He dated a lot of women, but every time things started to get serious for the lady, he would break up with them. This guy was an extremely handsome athelete with a lot of money and always had women coming on to him. But, he always told me that "it just wasn't the right relationship for him".
We went to a party one night and he took one look at this very ordinary girl, turned to me, and said "I'm going to marry her".
That was over 40 years ago, and they're still married.
Pretty cool...
2006-08-11 05:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by Tim B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a soul mate for everyone...there is some one out there waiting for you that has all the things in common. There is love at first sight but only if you believe in it, i do. i found my soul mate and he is the one i really love...I have had a feeling for 8 years that he is the right one...once we meet its gonna be all love. Its not BS. But if you believe in it...then yes there is a such thing.
2006-08-11 04:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that everyone has at least 2 soul mates. one male and one female.whether these are people that end up in your life forever is another matter entirely. I know lust at first site exists, but Im not too sure about love.. being truely in love is an attration of the mind, body and soul.
2006-08-11 05:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by xxxiter72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no perfect person in the world so you will just have to settle for a man that is near perfect. Ther isn't love at first sight, but you can be attracted to someone at first sight and want to get to know them better.
2006-08-11 04:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl i understand, ive been blessed with losers too!! so many cheaters and liars
i wouldnt call them soulmates but yea there out there but there is more than one for everybody
love at first sight its fake too
it should be called lust at first sight
cuz the only thing u kno about them is that they look sexy and the way the act in public, that has nutttin to do wit love
2006-08-11 04:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXXX sometimes one is lucky to have many soul mates. A person may marry for upteen years and have a great marriage and their soul mate dies. They are married again and live til death do them part. It was love at first sight when I met my husband. We married on our third date. It's been 13 years and four beautiful children. Nothing about real love is BS. Hope you find yours. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-08-11 04:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with u. i alway want to find the one but everything is soo hurt for me and now i think people say about true love.. love at first sight.. soul mate is alll BS
2006-08-11 04:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love at first sight does exist it just takes time sometimes...when i met my soul mate it was lafs but I was married...8 years we denied the attraction to ourselves and everyone else(even though every one else saw it)...after my divorce...BINGO...I am now with the man I should have been with from the beginning and have a wonderful relationship...getting married in a couple months!!!!!!
2006-08-11 04:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by momto4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be attracted to some one instantly but when they open their mouth they are repolsive.
you can have some one that you like and that can grow as you get to know them then you can not live with out them.
losers well the right person may not come to you? what if you do some asking around?
2006-08-11 04:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by parra nipples belt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋