because when i ask my boy friend? he answer me that you think that it a time to get married than fact the problem. It make me feel that he does not want me to having the baby?? can anyone please help tell me. That my thinking is T & F???pls
2006-08-11 04:46:27 · 22 answers · asked by lily l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
XXXXXXXXXXXX getting pregnant at the wrong time is the wrong way to get a man. You lost sight of your priorities for a momwent and the consequence of that is a baby. The only thing you can do is to bare it and go on if you want to finish college. You're on your own now. The only thing that's on Forest mind is to runnnnnn!!!!! you can't do the same thing though. Good luck !!! XXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-08-11 04:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is its would be a horrible idea to go to college and have a new born baby, you should really wait about 6 or 7 months for your baby tp get older so it can start drinking from a bottle. You need the father at this point the most. You either get him to help or you have to get someone you really trust to help, the father of your child should really be the one helping you. So they can form a bond but if he chooses not to support you are the child take him to court. Make him pay child support, and use that money to get a nanny or someone. You can not just get rid of your baby because the father cant except his responsibilities. If you are planning on a marrige it should be before the baby is born. good luck
xoxo
katie
2006-08-11 11:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking if you can stay in college with a baby, yes. A lot of colleges have daycare available and if not there are places that will help you so that you can stay in school. It's your baby, so if he doesn't want you to have it, oh well. You might not be able to get married to this guy, so be prepared to go it on your own. It might be hard, but with a college education, you'll have a better chance to give your baby a decent life.
2006-08-11 11:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by every1lovesamixedgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you are pregnant and in college? and your bf doesn't want to get married yet or at all? im not really sure waht you mean but i can tell you this, having a baby is a whole lot of responsibality. people always say that and its soooo true, however if you have someone (especiallly the babys dad) around its not as hard. if he doesn't want to get married then don't push him, but you have to prepare yourself mentally to know that there is a chance that you might be doing this alone.
i wish you all the luck in the world, and may God bless you and your baby.
2006-08-11 11:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by gtbooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your opinion is your own, and is neither right or wrong. This is why people shouldn't have pre-marital sex, because they end up getting knocked up with someone who doesn't want the responsibility inherent with having a child, and now you are going to have a very difficult if not impossible time finishing your studies.
2006-08-11 11:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your opinion is yours alone. But I would probably do whats best for your new little bundle of joy on the way. If it means that you have to break up with your bf if it comes down to it, then it has to be done. If it means keeping your bf and getting married, then it has to be done. You have to keep in mind whats best for your baby.
2006-08-11 11:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by hawkeyefan_2k6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you are pregnant or your not, that's pretty simple. Stay in college! Study up on your English; it will help you get a better paying job when you do have a family!
best wishes
2006-08-11 11:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by tharedhead ((debajo del ombú)) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably doesnt, but its up 2 u
if u think ur relationship will werk out and r opposed 2 abortion then there is nothing 2 decide about
otherwise think hard, btw if u dont have this baby in 3 years ull be like my x bf, who?
its true u will, sry
2006-08-11 11:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by p34nu7bu773rj3lly7im3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in school as long as you can before you give birth. Then take on-line courses for the nest little bit. Make the boyfriend responsible for his deed. If you loose him over this, then he was not worth having.
2006-08-11 11:50:32 · answer #9 · answered by The Princess of Pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you think you should do. the baby is in your womb if you want to give birth do it. no man is good enough to tell you weather to give birth or not. oh an stay in college. my mom got married young and didnt go to college and now she got divoreced from my dad and she has to support her and i with no college education.
best of luck
2006-08-11 11:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by jenette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋