Why is it that everytime i meet a guy i like i always put 110% and he dont give a crap.?

Question

I just ended a 2 year relationship with a waste of life and i cant seem to understand guys anymore. Im 22 and still every guy that comes across me is soooo bad. The other day i went to the gym and there was this guy there who for the past month keeps walking by me and staring. So finally after a month i went up to him and said hi. But his response was sooo bad! He said hi nice to meet u blah blah and look foward to seeing you around. i was like umm ok??? What do u think will happen?..

Answer 1

thats how it goes, you put in too much, they dont put anything.

you put too little, they put too much

needs to be an equal balance.

Answer 2

It's not your fault, you can thank the womens movement for making guys gunshy. The only things we have to look forward to are having our children aborted, paying through the nose for alimony and child support and the fact that it appears that women are hell bent on competing with us all the time. The nght in shining armor gor shot off his horse by some irate bitches. Our last bastiens of masculinity ie the lumber yard and auto parts stores have been taken over by women and baby carriages. we can't shop anymore at depot because the isles are always blocked off. Guys are scared to death of women today and it's only a matter of time before we loose all our desire, not even viagra will help. Good luck but most guys you meet have a friend or family member that got financially and emotionally shafted and won't repeat that mistake ever again. If you check with your state house or senate you'll find that the youth and juvenile justice comittee's are run by queers and lesbos who have redefined the family. Myself, I just occasionallysay hello when walking by, thats the most I'll give out. What a shame because I have a lot to offer. Never again

Answer 3

well, first of all, it depends on what kind of " Blah Blah " he was on about, was he the silly type, or perfect gentleman, or some where in the middle ? Only you can judge that.
They say : the first response is usually the honest one, but not in his case. Maybe he was tired after working out, or he have had a bad day - after all, I would go to the gym to get rid of my tension - so go easy on him, and give the guy a chance.
About your question what will happen ? honey, if I could tell the future, you will not find me here advising you what to do, you will find me in Vegas making millions .....lol !!
what will happen? you just be yourself,and let him do the works on you, now if you like his approach go for it and give him a chance, otherwise you are young, and you got your life ahead of you, what is the rush for ? Your happiness comes first !!!
OK girl ....go for it ...and best of luck.

Answer 4

well, i am only 18, but.. i know a lot about thins kinda stuff.. i just finished high school and i already have had at least 100 boyfriends in all my school years.. lol.. well, never put in 110% always keep in asking for more. YOU are the one in charge.. so, you've been dating this guy.. you really think he likes you, dont go full blast- OMG, LETS DO IT. or anything like that.. he walks you home one night, give him a kiss, the kiss should be the best kiss you can give but only let it last for 2 seconds. thats it. tell him good bye and dont go any further.. after your 5th or 6th date, you can start doing whatever.. just never go past 99% when you are trying to make your man happy. (unless its in bed)

xoxo
katie

Answer 5

I don't know exactly what will happen,however what should happen is that you should just back down and let him come to you! Even if it seems like he wants to pursue a relationship just act like you're not interested! The reason I say this is because you've been through enough drama with past relationships.As you said You always give 110 percent!!! isn't it time that you let someone else take charge and pamper you and spoil you? Good things come to those who wait,so don't rush it!!!!! Best wishes

Answer 6

Just wait. They're out there. I had the same experiences until I met the guy of my dreams when I was 26. Now we're engaged. The guy I dated before him had another girlfriend in another city. He even got engaged to her while we were together! SLIME BALL!!! I had just about given up myself. Then I met Mr. Right a few months later. You are having to deal with the crap so you know when you have a good thing and don't take advantage of it or treat it wrong. Be patient, don't lower your standards, and it will happen for you.

Answer 7

Thats how most men are these days. They are basically complete jerks. You can find the occasional few that can actually hold a conversation with some intelligence. Keep looking around. Good Luck! And enjoy being single for the time being.

Answer 8

ok you are trying too hard, from now on let the guy approach you! if you see a guy you like smile and look away if he is interested he WILL come to you, and if you go on a date just be yourself makke jokes and try keep him laughing guys love that in a woman,but dont come on too strong,let him do the chasing for a bit,then gently let him know you like him and all should be fine! good luck girl.

Answer 9

You need to stop picking the wrong guys! If a man isn't willing to put forth the effort in a relationship with you, then move on.

Answer 10

You seem to attract bad guys. Try not picking up men in the gym or bars.

Answer 11

if he was a waste and you let it go for two years than that is two years longer than you need to stay in the relationship. people can only put you through what you allow them to....always put yourself first and then you can't loose.