I was borrowing a shirt, he was in the room, told me which drawer to go in...and I pulled out some woman's panties and lingerie....he's said he doesn't know how long its been there, must've been an ex's....we've only been dating a couple months....I said it was no big deal..in the back of my head...I'm wondering.....should I be concerned? Oh I hope its not HIS! YIKES!
2006-08-11 04:36:58 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-11 04:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe you should be concerned. I'm sorry. Whether the lingerie is his, or an ex-girlfriend, he's already lying to you. How could he not know how long it's been in his drawer that he uses everyday? Be concerned. Be aware of what he does. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you for the best.
2006-08-11 04:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful U never know what's in the drawer the next time U pull it.Better to put the thoughts out of yr head than the back.It is not healthy if U keep wondering my dear.
2006-08-11 04:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by me_imah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a widower but in 22 years of marriage, my wife NEVER put her underwear in my chest of drawers. She had her own dresser and GOD help the man who entered.
Your boyfriend told you which drawer to look in. That was his way of telling you he is cross dresser. He knew what was in that drawer.
Additionally, "he doesn't know how they got there?" How often does he do the laundry? You put something new in my drawers, I will know it the next morning. Sorry lady, you have a cross dresser on your hands. Now the question is, what now? Only you can answer that question.
Vaya con DIOS
2006-08-11 04:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by chrisbrown_222 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what IS a couple of months?
I would think there was something to be concerned about. Did it look like it was old? and does he seem like the neat type? If he is, i'm sure he would have cleaned out his drawers by now and in the process thrown it out if it belongs to his ex
2006-08-11 04:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by Juliet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right, it is probably his. How can it be there for months and he not know it? He does one (or more) of the following:
1) messy
2) enjoys cross dressing
3) keeps ex-gf underwear as a souvenir
If he is generally organized and "her" underwear is the only thing left there then something is really strange.
2006-08-11 04:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if it is. That could open up a whole new world to you.
You need to be more open minded. It is probably an ex's but why look into more than it is. Unless he has given other hints of his cross-dressing. Have fun
2006-08-11 04:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by downsouthcpl2932 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw them away, and if he has a problem with that, then be very afraid.
But i dont think he is hiding anything cause he told you to go into the drawer, so he must have known they were there.
2006-08-11 04:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats what we women always say when we dont want him to know that it bother us! Maybe his ex forget to pick it up or she just leave it incase she came back over.... i dont think you should be concern about that if you trust him then you shouldnt have a problem then but.....if its his thats a problem.! Good Luck.
2006-08-11 04:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by Trouble Maker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl be real, I'll tell you my story. I broke up with my man for a few weeks AND IN THAT TIME, he hooked up with some girl.
well he still kept everything that was mine (thongs, clothes..etc). well HE came back to me and (now were together)
but he tells me all the problems he had with that girl cuz he kept all my stuff and he even had my name really nice designed in his room (wall) and didnt bother on getting rid of it. so i guess guys lie all the time he told me he lied to her saying he was gona get rid of everything but never did.
2006-08-11 04:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by CALI GIRL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a sign of cheating, but you should maybe discuss it in a calm way with him, don't accuse him of it, but just say that your really interested in it, and that you wont get mad if he tells u the truth.
2006-08-11 04:40:26 · answer #11 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋