ok girls first question how do i get my girlfriend to try new things in bed (or elsewhere else) lol she says she wants to try things but when i suggest something she gets shy and backs out the things i suggest are tying up or costumes. stuff like that. second question. im interested in trying golden showers. have any girls tried this and like it im in 2 minds about it.
2006-08-11 04:35:16 · 13 answers · asked by funluvenguy2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her what SHE would like to try. Then make a plan out of it, don't spring it on her, tell her that it would make you happy and make it a plan to try roleplaying or whatever. Maybe she's just not into trying what you want to try.
As for G. showers, never done it, never will.
2006-08-11 04:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to try new things is to approach it in a way that makes her comfortable with it. Don't go for the kinky costumes or dominatrix right away, she'll freak out! Come on, you wouldn't run a 10k with out warming up first? Try little things, like maybe some lingerie and silk scarfs that you run over her body (don't tie her up yet) maybe a feather tickler. New positions, lotions, food. There's lots of ways to explore your partner, don't be too extreme until she's used to it. If you're going for something a little rougher, make sure you establish a safe word that will let you know she's no longer confortable and make you stop. Always respect her wishes and don't make her feel bad for stopping. If you're gentle and encouraging you'll eventually bring the sex kitten out of her. Above all: be patient! As for golden showers...do you know what that means? It's not very sexy!
2006-08-11 04:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by Evelyn R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question. Try to lead her into being the one to ask to try the new thing. Maybe she will be more comfortable if it is her idea.
Second question. Golden Showers, Good but take a shower fast.
2006-08-11 04:41:00 · answer #3 · answered by happygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just shy or she says she will do it and doesnt want to then backs out. She just might not be adventurous i didnt use to be i am now and up for most thngs . Talk to her about it. Golden showers please you really want your g/friend to p1ss on you, doesnt sound ike she will though honey
2006-08-12 00:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by dizzymooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the way what is golden showers?? and also do not force her to do something she does not want to do.
2006-08-11 05:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by happygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um golden showers ewww. As for getting her to try new things, be gentle and tell her how beautiful she is. you have to ease her into a new way of thinking.
2006-08-11 04:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
golden showers is where you pee on your partner.
I have never done it but I would try it in the shower first.
2006-08-11 05:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by hmmmmmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her and find a gal who is into what you are into. Golden Showers??? How about cleveland steamers!
2006-08-11 04:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by TropicalSun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, ask her what she has in mind, then just suggest things related to that. if she backs down then just leave her be, she obviously doesnt actually want to do anything. Good Luck
xoxo
katie
2006-08-11 04:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok answer to question 1 you and your girl should have a night in with a bottle of wine or some sort of alcohol then when you are both a bit drunk she should feel alot more relaxed, dont ask her to do it just DO IT! Second question, ewwwwwwwwwww!!!!!
2006-08-11 04:39:37 · answer #10 · answered by hugskissesfun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋