Why do people feel sex is dirty and immoral not super cuddles, huggies and kisses, that make you feel all snuggly with someone you like or love?
In and of itself no marriage or any other involvement other then you like each other...
Where safe sex has been emloyed to deal with stds and pregnancy, and backed up so no std pregnancy reasoning.
2006-08-11 04:34:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Why are most things sexaul or nude based not seen as specail hugs and cuddles? ie affection...
Why bring negative notions like dirt or immorality into it...
Unless involving bullying ie rape
2006-08-11 04:58:51 · update #1
XXXXXXXXX people think pigs are dirty and don't eat pork. It's just a matter of preference. Most people like pork, most people like sex. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-08-11 04:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more of an answer to baby blue post !
in the olden times men used to take women whenever they felt like it. Do u think the caveman asked if she had a headache before getting his way, and if you look back over the past 100 years its only recently that the womans place has not been by the kitchen sink ! or the bedroom.
I aint a shovanistic .... shov....soc.... oh u know what i mean but lets be honest ... we have come a long way since clubbs and stones !
Th eonly people that feel sex is immoral or dirty is the ones that are no bloody good at it !
Those hollier than now types who think they should convert all us normal people into their clones.......well no thanks mamma ! ....... i like my sex down and dirty and i aint changing for no one.
do what u want m8 its u r life and as long as you aint bothering any1 else then good on you.
P.S. try and make the question understandable next time ...... u will get more answers.
2006-08-18 01:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by emi.cons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not dirty and immoral, God created us and created sex but he put restrictions on it, he streamlined the use of it to a man and his wife. In old times it was even unheard of fro an unmarried youth to have sex, although in heathen lands it was allowed for the guys( with which women ask me)
Nowadays, sex is being dejinxed, everyone has this awareness about the topic that was not there befor and everyone wants to try this new sin out and there comes the addiction cos God really created sex for it to be enjoyed and respected. Now with children and uncommitted folks having sex you have all manners of ways to make the sex sin look more sinful then comes in same sex sins and other fobidden and abnormal forms of sex. Sex is not a sin, it becomes a sin because of disobedience to Gods rule of sex not being outside marriage and even more so with same sex 'sex'.
I believe stds came as a kind of punishment for sex sin but I guess its not a good enough punishment.
The bases of sex being immoral is because it has a lot to do with emotion and phsycology and hurt for some at one point or the other.
I still believe sex should be in the brackets of marriageONLY and I know that God is loving and forgiving to forget our sins and past.
He didnt create sex to be a trap for us so I guess you could talk to HIm, ask Him for forgiveness...
Kissing and cuddling, someone could hardly get hurt or getting pregnant ar contact an std or get phsycological damage as a result of those (I stand to be corrected). I pray God does not bann those. Especially the Kisssing part.
2006-08-16 23:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by baby blu 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Em, what are you on? What exactly is your question? If you are trying to ask why people feel sex is immoral etc, then its probably because of the way they were brought up, like their religion. But I for one do not think that sex is dirty and immoral. Its a part of life.
2006-08-16 11:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becasue in our subconsious mind we have been programme to think like that. Have your father or mother or any adult, tell you to close your eyes, or turn away when there are kissing scences on TV when you were a child, not to mention steamy romantic scences. However, when we grow into adulthood, this preconceived subconsious message which was distorted in the first place was not erased and reprogramme for adulthood. Thus we never went forward with a clear understanding of sexuality or the understanding is clouded with the childish thinking of procreation and sex.
2006-08-11 04:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sex is bodily dirty because of each of the mess. The word dirty is literal the following, and does no longer advise spiritually degrading. Fluids leak and sheets stain and human beings from time to time bathe afterwards ... so certain, it many times is dirty. The scent is amazingly nice besides the undeniable fact that. it truly is under no circumstances immoral to the fellow or human beings or animals in touch. (I advise an animal mating with yet another of an similar species ). if you're into it, it is your company, and no one else's. the in straightforward words way it will be publically immoral is that if it were finished with the help of a human adult on little ones or animals, both honestly one of that are considered too youthful or too organic or unwilling. Rape is continuously immoral. Yuk! imagine an animal desirous to have sex with a human! i recognize a large type of dogs favor to hump human legs or table legs .. yet they don't look reliable examples of something else of the animal international .. a options too humanized now. human beings have became dogs into perverted sex fiends! the different element of your question is social administration. In some international places women folk who like sex in the previous marriage are labelled promiscuous. men who like sex in the previous marriage are respected. that's in straightforward words a social injustice to regulate the persons. Very hypocritical, yet no longer immoral. sex is a organic body function and to deny its relief is immoral. P.S. Masturbation, sex with consent between adults, no matter if of an similar sex or or distinct are completely moral. sex between minors is a confusing ingredient - little ones are nonetheless organic and favor to target it. no longer something immoral about yet adults freak out about it. yet as lengthy they have taken secure precautions on the topic of contraception and stds. it won't be able to be said as immoral, merely organic! yet many could say that sex between a minor and an adult could be immoral no matter if the minor raped or seduced the adult. humorous previous international, isn't it?
2016-11-24 20:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by mengesha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Upbringing and/or personal taste.
Biblically, St Paul cautioned a young man to take a wife, if he felt urges, so it is not against that.
My parents told me that "sex" was for the production of children and nothing more - so why did I find a stash of condoms at the back of my dad's underwear drawer?
Personally I just love a good ****.
2006-08-19 03:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people some times have very guarded view of sex and relationships where sex talk is forbidden or even people are to shy to talk about it. sex education is taboo, but we survive as we have done for millions of years. Isnt it fun finding out ?, sometimes we are too shy about discussing what we really want out of sex or relationships. Drop your guard and say to your partner what you really like and let the fun begin.In my veiw its not dirty its a natural part of life, loving and growing up and maturing. Its a beautiful thing !!!!. hope this helps .Terry
2006-08-11 04:49:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What in the wide world of sports are Super Cuddles?
2006-08-19 04:38:14 · answer #9 · answered by Bongo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is religion, clercks always urge people to hate sex unless it is done to making kids , that is holy,
i donot know too, a whole community is very hot for sex but outside the bed rooms start to make it bad and dirty and immoral, it is doppel standards, it is doing something and going out and pretending to hate it, while you are very addicted to it
2006-08-11 04:41:47 · answer #10 · answered by spider-joe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you do some history digging even 20yrs ago sex is a touchy subject' and hundreds of years ago they forbit masterbation for fear of the devell.
It is something that is personel and you dont share things unless you want everyone know how you please people?
I guess the dirtyness would come from our parents of being court or you cant do that here ( public meuseum)
2006-08-11 04:41:47 · answer #11 · answered by parra nipples belt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋