why do people feel sex is dirty and immoral not super cuddles?

Question

Why do people feel sex is dirty and immoral not super cuddles, huggies and kisses, that make you feel all snuggly with someone you like or love?

In and of itself no marriage or any other involvement other then you like each other...


Where safe seex has been imloyed to deal with stds and pregnancy, and backed up so no std pregnancy reasoning.

Eer No to certain folk I am not in the least bit gay and regularly cheer on wet t shirt, jelly wrestling girls and strippers.

Yes lots of fun and love seeing the fun bags but the girls are human and would make good mates as well as girlfriends or fun folk for a 3 some too.

As said yeah cuddle stuff as you can be horney and raunchy and the works but in the end its just to get people closer together as after you are spent and drained you want someone to cuddle up to and sleep with

Is sex was simply about procreation we would have no feeling and humans would have a mating season where one mating = pregnant... We dont. Its part of human bonding and interaction and the sleeping around makes logical sence nature wise.

It also empowers femlaes to have something guys need.

There are too many folk on the planet anyway so sex should be for fun and affection so less babies

DIRT HAS TO INVOLVE MUD

THEREFORE THE NOTION THAT SEX IS DIRTY IS A LIE.

IMMORALITY HAS TO INVOLVE SOME FORM OF BULLYING IE RAPE

OR IT CANNOT BE SEEN AS IMMORAL AND BEING MORAL IS BEING NICE TO OTHERS...


THEREFORE YOU DON'T NEED MARRIAGE TO HAVE MORAL SEX JUST TREAT OTHERS AS YOU WOULD HAVE THEM TREAT YOU

Answer 1

Puritan Ethics..The root cause of all this type of nonsense.

Answer 2

Sex is physically dirty because of all the mess. The word dirty is literal here, and doesn't mean spiritually degrading. Fluids leak and sheets stain and people sometimes shower afterwards ... so yes, it usually is dirty. The smell is really nice though. It is rarely immoral to the person or people or animals involved. (I mean an animal mating with another of the same species ).
If you are into it, it is your business, and nobody else's. The only way it could be publically immoral is if it were performed by a human adult on children or animals, both of which are considered too young or too pure or unwilling. Rape is always immoral.
Yuk! Imagine an animal wanting to have sex with a human! I know a lot of dogs like to hump human legs or table legs .. but they are not good examples of the rest of the animal world .. far too humanized now.
Humans have turned dogs into perverted sex fiends!

The other part of your question is social control. In some countries women who like sex before marriage are labelled promiscuous. Men who like sex before marriage are revered. It is just a social injustice to control the people. Very hypocritical, but not immoral.
Sex is a natural body function and to deny its relief is immoral.
P.S. Masturbation, sex with consent between adults, whether of the same sex or or different are totally moral. Sex between minors is a tricky thing - teenagers are still pure and want to try it. Nothing immoral about but adults freak out about it. But as long they have taken safe precautions regarding birth control and stds. it cannot be called immoral, simply natural! But many would say that sex between a minor and an adult would be immoral even if the minor raped or seduced the adult. Funny old world, isn't it?

Answer 3

If the act is strictly sex and is being used to relieve your horniness only then you may as well have a rutting season. If the act is special to you then it is not considered simply having sex as it involves much more than the simple "moving parts". Dirty does not have to specifically imply mud...it can also imply being tarnished or defouled in various and sundry other ways. And to say you are having safe sex is a misconception. You are totally wrong if you do not think you can get an STD or end up creating a life if you are expecting man's own creations, i.e. birth control pills, condoms, etc. to protect you. They are not perfect forms of birth control as they are subject to human use and as we know, humans are subject to making mistakes such as forgetting a pill, being given old medication that has lost potency, using a condom that breaks, etc. People get pregnant all the time even with the use of conventional birth control. In fact the only true 100% way to not get pregnant is the Aspirin method....... it is an old an rarely ever used prescription these days. You simply take two and hold them between the females knees as tightly as possible until you get hold of your raging homones and give up on the act all together. Random acts of sex are just as rash as random acts of violence. Both are impulse, not thought driven.

Answer 4

People donot think sex as dirty.But love making is done secretly only ,not in public.Sex was made secret probably due to risk of becoming pregnant at very small age,security of women,upkeeping of children etc.With the introduction of many devices to prevent pregnancy and ensuring safe sex,sex is becoming no more a secret affairs.Partner swaping/bachelor sex clubs/living with out marriage etc are becoming popular.A day may come again when people may prefer to live as nudes and cloth will be only for protection from climate.Christian missionaries made sex as "sin" obviously with good intension of protecting women.Polygamy was popular even in 19 th century.

Answer 5

sex isn't dirty and immoral, God created us and created sex yet he positioned regulations on it, he streamlined using it to a guy and his spouse. In previous situations it replaced into even spectacular fro an unmarried adolescents to have sex, besides the shown actuality that throughout heathen lands it replaced into allowed for the lads( with which women folk question me) in recent times, sex is being dejinxed, all and distinctive has this expertise about the region that replaced into no longer there befor and all and distinctive needs to target this new sin out and there comes the habit cos God really created sex for it to be loved and revered. Now with little ones and uncommitted persons having sex you've all manners of options to make the sex sin look more effective sinful then is available in similar sex sins and different fobidden and unusual sorts of sex. sex isn't a sin, it is going to change right into a sin because of disobedience to Gods rule of sex no longer being outside marriage or maybe more effective so with similar sex 'sex'. i believe stds got here as a kind of punishment for sex sin yet i wager its no longer a reliable adequate punishment. The bases of sex being immoral is because it has lots to do with emotion and phsycology and harm for some at one element or the different. I nonetheless believe sex should be contained in the brackets of marriageONLY and that i recognize that God is loving and forgiving to ignore our sins and previous. He didnt create sex to be a capture for us so i wager you're able to confer with HIm, ask Him for forgiveness... Kissing and cuddling, someone could hardly ever get harm or getting pregnant ar contact an std or get phsycological harm as a effect of those (I stand to be corrected). I pray God does no longer bann those. fantastically the Kisssing section.

Answer 6

because sex has lost its original purpose, it was meant to populate the planet, and the children born of this were ment to be taken care of by parents who love and adore it. It became dirty when people started doing it with anybody and everybody they felt like. Sex is a sacred part of mairage and should be used and treated as such.

Answer 7

If you understand chakras (energy centres within the body), sexual desire is controlled by the sacral chakra, this also controls guilt (as well as jealousy,envy and possessiveness). If the chakra is out of balance, then in a sence you can feel guilty about having sex.

Sex is also a great way to control people, it's a natural desire within us all. If we didn't have this, then we wouldn't procreate and our species wouldn't survive. It is because sexual desire is so strong that it is a great way to control the masses, make it "sinful" to have these feelings, though they are as natural as breathing. If you go back in history, The Church, can and still do use this to maintain that control, not just "controling the masses" but population as well, especially amongst the poor.

Answer 8

Sex isn't dirty and immoral, as long as it's done in the right context (aka: marriage). Outside of marriage... it's not the best thing to do at all.

That is the belief of Christianity. I know that many don't believe this is true at all, but it's honestly the best way. Here's something to show that it's better to wait, that has nothing to do with the Bible at all:

http://www.marriageromance.com/stories/10802697703.htm

The Bible says that for a reason...

Answer 9

Sex is not dirty or inmoral in and of itself. It's supposed to be great, an act of love. When you have sex, you're closest to the person you're doing it than to anybody else, and you share something so intimate and so wonderful that is too difficult to describe. It is a really profound thing.
The thing is that people have reduced the value of sex by transforming it into something purely instinctive, and have made it cheap, dirty, made it lose its value, even traded it for favours or money (which are not even close to the value of that intimacy) and lost themselves in it too, becoming dirty and cheap as well.
But for those of us who treasure it as the great and beautiful thing it is, we value it and protect it, and therefore want to make of it one of the most special experiences ever.

Answer 10

Minly due to religion.
The people who conbtrol the planet, like the queen and the pope for two, don't really like people to enjoy themselves too much, so they set ruiles which reduces enjoyment.
Iweould say bollocks to waht anybody else thinks and do your own thing, as long as it not against anyonme else will, and not against the law, there's no reason for guilt

Answer 11

Sex is the most sacred feeling in human body. But that should be used in a manner that suits its sanctity. Otherwise it is dirty and immorality. Pearls thrown to swines!