Ladies my girlfriend wants me to talk dirty to her but i'm not sure what to say or how to go about saying it. I'm a shy guy who is completely respectful of women, that's how I was brought up. So I don't know how to go about this, What to say or How to say it.
Can any of you Help me with this?
2006-08-11 04:31:41 · 22 answers · asked by The Plague 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its easy to talk dirty. It's really narrating the situation. what ever she is doing to you say it like if you were demanding it. What ever you do her ask her if she likes that etc......
2006-08-11 04:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by BBW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to do it then I suggest you talk to her about trying something else. Its only going to make you feel embarassed or inadequate, which will probably kill the mood.
If you want to give it a try for her then I suggest talking to her first about what she wants to hear, that way you can get an idea of how dirty you can go without offending her. If you can't talk about it then start off slow and say romantic things with a nasty twist to them. Tell her what you want to do to her, what you want her to do to you and what feels good. Dirty talk doesnt mean you have to get all whips and chains on her but just be vocal in bed.
Say her name, tell her how much you desire her and want to take her. Start it off in a public place by whispering in her ear " I need you right now" or "I cant wait to get you home". If you have a while before you can actually hit the sheets its going to build up passion and excitement and when you finally get to the bed (or where-ever) the words might just come out all by themselves.
Good luck!
2006-08-12 04:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what her definition of "dirty talk" is...is there any particular thing that turns her on? Anything she really wants to hear you say to her? I've never been good at the dirty talk either--I get a bad case of the giggles. Just be open with her about how you are feeling and I'm sure you will be a master in no time!
2006-08-11 04:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to be a bit difficult for you because dirty talking takes finesse that must be developed. Don't call her a bit*ch or whore or anything degrading like that. Study her and scope out the things about her that excite you and turn you on. If it's her breasts, her hair, her butt, her thighs...imagine what you'd like to do with her and that part of her. Don't worry about grammar. Keep your voice sort of low and deep. Act like you have to have her and the only way to get her is to talk her out of her panties. Whisper in her ear and kiss her neck while you talk to her. Have you guys done the do yet? If so, then tell her how good she is. I can't tell you all the names for different body parts but as an adult, even one who is shy and respectful of women, you know what time it is. Just let it flow and be real with her. Don't promise to do things to her that you have no intention of doing. But if you fantasize, share those fantasies with you. Dirty talk is okay between 2 people in a relationship. Don't think of it as wrong. Think of it as foreplay, an aphrodisiac. Go ahead and handle yours! You can do it!
2006-08-11 04:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
c'mmon dear! u can do it..talking dirty is sexy! and sexiness is an art! no worries she ask for it! u dont have to be shy and 100 percent respectful all the time in 365 days. no Spice! means cold!...too neat! geee...do some tricks! Have Chapagne together in Ciggar room..In Intercontinental hotel have...Bugis!.And Ahh Be observant on wat u holding! Enjoying a cigar also can start a real dirty conversation...with her, be observant a little! spc the cigar lenght, thickness, the color...when they cut and lite the cigar for you..and when u smoke it...or let her smoke it or share... haha..u see! good luck!
2006-08-11 04:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by starsg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a couple of drinks and just let your true feelings flow. Cause it's in you just say what you are feeling at that moment if it feels good tell her it feels good just say whatever you are feeling when you are beating the pum-pum up that's all. You can't go wrong mainly your girl just wants to know that the loving she is giving feels as good as what you are giving her. So say what you feel and mean what you say. Good Luck !!!!!
2006-08-11 04:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly,I really don't like being talked to in a dirty way.But.Umm.I think you should talk to her exlpainingthat you don not want to do this.I shr really loves/likes you then it would be ok with.Relashonships are party based on communication and honesty.So.Go ahead and tell her you don't feel confortable doing that.
2006-08-11 04:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly suggest you both get a little tipsy before sex if you are old enough. this will help. and then just go with it. i'm too embarrassed to tell you what she wants to hear. but drinking a little usually loosens people up and lowers your shyness to become vocal.... once you do what feels right a couple times you don't even need to drink anymore....
drink and do what the girl above me said to do
2006-08-11 04:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by shortnsweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend does that generally. i do no longer situation approximately it because of the fact I comprehend that he desires time together with his adult men. we can't carry out each and every of the time! i could honestly be information and enable it circulate. as long because it is not a generic occurence i think of it somewhat is healthful to spend time aside.
2016-09-29 04:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my man talk dirty sometimes but (i dont really like it) and I dont want to say the things he says but... i'd rather have him not.
maybe you can try asking guys what works for them?
or try teasing your girl a lot that might help.
2006-08-11 04:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by CALI GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋