My stepdad and mom get drunk and start to fight. then my stepdad starts beating her up.
2006-08-11 04:24:58 · 26 answers · asked by Mercedes M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Call the cops as soon as it happens. Take pictures and video if you can to document it happening.
2006-08-11 04:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Convince your mom to pack you and her up and leave, go to a women's shelter. She needs to file for divorce and stay with relatives or other friends until she can make enough money to live on her own with you. Call the police whenever your stepdad is beating your mom. Tell the school counselor or teachers at school when you go back to school in the fall.
2006-08-11 11:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm talking from experience when i say this to u as i was beat by my husband for 5 years before i finally left. Your mother is in a vicious cylce and she will not change the situation until she realizes she deserves more in her life. Her alcoholism is a coping skill she developed probably long before she met this dumb ********. You need to get out find a relative maybe one of ur friends parents would be willing to let u stay with them if u cant turn to any of ur relatives. Bottom line is u have to leave that enviornment u too are a victim and unfortunately its not by ur choice ur mother is making that choice for u right now. LEAVE as a last resort hon go to your local child protective services office....i would hate to see u be put in a foster home but there are many other options before that so use them. Good luck and please keep us posted
2006-08-11 11:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by crazywaitress2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear that you are in that situation. Call the police and when your mom is not drunk talk to her if you already haven't. I grew up in very similar circumstances and it was hard. My stepfather was a very violent drunk. But talk to your mom and tell her how you feel and let her know that you will stand by her. I will be praying for you. Always remember that Jesus loves you and He cares about you and he is just a prayer away and He will always listen and speak right to your heart. You can talk to Him like you would talk to a good friend but it is through your prayers. Much love!!
2006-08-11 11:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by Leilialoha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey I'm sorry you have to see all that talk to your mom about it..she should leave him if he is abusive like that not only is she getting hurt its also hurting you to see it and i would inform her of that.
You can contact social services but you are risking being taken away from your mom wich maybe isnt a bad idea .most likely what will happen in that case they will check into whats going on at home and probably place you in foster care until things get better at home.
You shouldnt have to witness that abuse going on and whose to say he wont start beating on you later on. Also they shouldnt be getting drunk ...sounds like they are alcoholics wich isnt a good lifestyle for you to be in either.
I guess the first step for you to make is talk to your mother if that doesnt work then you should try talking to another family memeber such as a grandma or aunt or uncle they may take you in until things change i guess if that doesnt work either then social services would be the only way to go from there.
I wish you luck
2006-08-11 11:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by tess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your stepfather is the worst kind of bully. He is nothing but a coward. He needs help but won't admit to it. Calling 911 when this happens is a good start. Your life will be difficult for a while but in the long run you and your mother will be better off. Toxic people like your stepfather negatively affect those closest to them, unfortunately that is you and your mother.
2006-08-11 11:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by Samuel C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call 911
2006-08-11 11:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by First Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
911
2006-08-11 11:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by spoiled_angel80 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get the hell out of there with your mum get a restraining order against him get the cops involved before he becomes so violent that he does some irrepairable damage to either you or your mom as it is abuse and the mental abuse it leaves behind can be just as bad as the physical abuse.Get your mom out before she becomes a suffere of the battred wives syndrom and she will never be able to get out .Please do the right thing and just get out and have the police sort him out for the sake of your mom and you.
2006-08-11 11:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing but since ur mom seem to can't hit his *** back u do the job for her and if you are scared the call the police because they can stop him pick up something and knock his *** out he want do it no more i promise you
2006-08-11 11:31:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
call 911 and take pictures of the bruises.
maybe talk to ur mom about getting helpwith her drinking and getting out while she still can.
relationships that are abusive end only one way if you don't get out in time and thats a body bag.
your mom needs to get out as soon as possible.
2006-08-11 11:40:00 · answer #11 · answered by ndemby05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋