My question is:
How do I get over a long-time crush? we were never together or anything, if that makes it easier.
i am terrible at getting over my crushes...
and i can not go to bars
~jesus christ~
2006-08-11 04:20:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think about all his bad points and not the good ones
2006-08-11 04:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by Brian H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you to were never together, then it should be easy. If it was just a crush then you need to just let it go because once you stop wasting your time and dreaming of what you would like to have, you can start start enjoying what you can get. What you got to realize is that wasted time is something you can't get back so why waste it on someone that you maybe not ever get to love.
2006-08-11 11:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by Blaq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a meaningful relationship and stop with the crushes. If they are this hard to get over then I am not so sure that they are just crushes, they maybe boredline odsessions especially since you have never been with them and it is taking you so long to get over them. It is okay to have crushes but not this deep. Try to find someone that you can have a relationship with and not just a crush, they are not healthy.
2006-08-11 11:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Hotbox25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to realize that everything happens for a reason. And if that doesnt help, just tell yourself he wasnt good enuff for you anyway, get together with your friends and have a good time. Laughter is the best medicine.
2006-08-11 11:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say time heals all wounds, and if you give this time, then this wound should heal. I know it won't be easy, but if you put your mind to it and just focus, then in time, you'll be over your crush.
I hope this helps you and good luck
2006-08-11 11:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by Michael_D_Miller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to hear people say "out of sight, out of mind." If you don't see this person on a regular basis, you'll get over it.
2006-08-11 11:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by Diabla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would call him and talk about the problem, I mean tell him that you guys are never talking. Ask if you wanna go out . there you go.
2006-08-11 22:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new crush, realize that you've lived your life this long without that person and you'll be fine continuing without him
2006-08-11 11:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes ya just have to forget.
life is like that. its happened to most of us.
i know it sucks but just get your mind on other things, and slowly, you will get over it.
best of luck in it, it should never happen.
2006-08-11 11:24:28 · answer #9 · answered by digital genius 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't think about him and look around for other people that look hot or cute or whatever you wont to say and go after them cuz you will have better luck getting them.
2006-08-11 11:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by n_jevne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋