I had been dating this guy for two years and everything was going great, we never even had one single arguement. But, all of a sudden he cheats on me with two women within a 6month time span, of course he is gone now, cause I got fed up.. I asked him why? and he says I dont know you are sexy but.... and couldnt finish his answer like he didnt know himself. And I saw the last girl, she looks total different from me, I am carmel (light brown) complected, and she is blk but white as snow. Totally opposites.. So, why would a guy cheat, when they have a good girl at home?
2006-08-11 04:15:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS. For Tony D, I am not fat.. lol I have a very very nice body and I look good. so, this is a shock to me...
2006-08-11 04:29:59 · update #1
Unfortunately when the lord made man he only gave him enough blood to run one brain and we all know what brain it is that takes over. It's not that they don't love you its the power they get when they get off. Sticking it to someone new is a rush and that is what they are after. You ask any man out their that fooled around if in fact they did love their spouse and they will say yes. Most times if you ask them if you would want a relationship with the one they were fooling around with and they would say no way. Its a rush and they are daredevils.
2006-08-11 04:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause he was thinking with the wrong head. Men do that, a girl can come up and start saying all this stuff to him and the next thing you know the right head shuts off and the wrong head turns on. Some guys get bored real easy with the same old thing so they go out to find something new. It isn't your fault. You should never blame yourself for something he did. Like the saying goes for guys; if a girl is willing to give it up hey why not go for it. He found 2 girls that was willing to give it up real easy so he went for it. They are not the type of girls though he would want to settle down with. But as far as a booty call goes he finds nothing wrong with them. But you did the right thing on letting him go. You will find someone that will treat you alot better and be faithful to just you.
2006-08-11 11:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by raindrop_33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man cheats I don't think he is doing it off of looks or anything, I think that some men like the excitement, the adrenalin rush of sneaking around and not being caught. Then have you ever noticed when you have a man everyone wants you and then when your single men look through you like glass, or they just want sex, no dinner, no movie just sex! I think the same goes for men and unlike some women, some men just react to the fact that someone else is giving them attention.
2006-08-11 11:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by rockwithelmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing it is for the same reason that women cheat. Variety, tired of the old relationship, afraid of stagnation.
Often it has very little to do with the person they are currently with.
Not everyone wants to grow old with one person.
2006-08-11 11:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because the good girl at home is a total cow. I mean when he said " I don't know, you are sexy but..." I'm pretty sure he was gonna finish with "but... your fat as hell."
2006-08-11 11:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by Tony D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we are biologically programmed to have sex with as many women as possible.
2006-08-11 11:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no cheating. its the changing.men prefer variety. so he likes to taste all varieties.after getting saturated, he will be with you only.
2006-08-11 11:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys cheat because there are girls who will go along with it
2006-08-11 11:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by rsuavez66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋