For the past nine years, i've been single. I've gone out and tried meeting new people, and becomming friend with them. But, as a result, i ended up failing. So, am i always meant to be alone, and never have friends, or girlfriends. If that is the case, there is no need for me to have a future
2006-08-11
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➔ Singles & Dating
Being single isn't bad. It keeps your options open. I don't think I have dated the same guy twice in a row since junior year of high school. Don't look for a relationship. Look for a friendship.
2006-08-11 04:12:27
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answered by The Princess of Pleasure 3
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U failed to mention ur age but really it doesnt matter. Look, im not trying to be a *****, but come ON! You know as well as any1 that u will eventually meet sum one...and although u are ready for that special sum 1, they will come to you when you least expect them to. In the mean time live your LIFE for gods sake. Try different places then what u have been and always make sure u are well groomed at all times....But really, its not the end of the world and saying that u have no future without sumone by your side just says u cant do anything on ur own and the only way u will be successful at sumthing is if there is sumone there to hold your hand. Ive been single for 4yrs and take it from me honey: its a fricken blessing!
2006-08-11 11:18:50
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answered by eve11en 2
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How do you fail , seriously? This is a great way to get taken advantage of but sometimes it works. You can't control other people only yourself. In other words all you can do is control what kind of a friend you are. And you probably have more then you realize right now and are just depressed. But if you want to feel free to email and Ill help you accentuate the positive your missing.
2006-08-11 11:15:02
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answered by yourdoneandover 5
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hey it all starts with an attitude uplift. ok you've had a pretty crappy time for the last few years. no-one can tell you if you're going to have a miserable life from now on.....start at looking at things a little more positively...trust me it works....i'll give you a challenge....when you get up in the morn (or whenever) look in the mirror and pretend to find something funny...doesn't matter if you do or don't...just pretend...laugh in the mirror...do not take your eyes off yourself for a good 2 minutes...keep 'fake laughing' change the tone of your laugh...change your expression...but laugh...i guarantee you'll be genuinely laughing after the 2 Mins...just don't stop and don't give up....good luck chuckles
2006-08-11 11:17:05
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answered by Anonymous
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Until you are happy with yourself you are going to find it impossible to find someone else to be happy with you! Start enjoying your life! Enjoy being single and not having to make all those compromises it takes in a relationship. About the time you are happy, someone will come along!
2006-08-11 11:16:33
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answered by Anonymous
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I believe you make your own destiny. You sound very depressed right now and that will pass. Find out how to make yourself happy and get your confidance level up. Then people will start to gravitate towards you and you will have more friends and the opposite sex will be more attracted to you.
2006-08-11 11:16:17
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answered by Big Thinker 3
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You need to quit being so negative. Also, don't let yourself appear to eager or needy, that is a total turn off. You need to be confident and happy in your own skin and then the rest will fall into place.
2006-08-11 11:13:15
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answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7
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just give it time, well i see that you have but go out to bars ( don't get drunk, and if you're old enough) try new things where you can possibly meet new people, find out what they like. Try going places where possibly mates would hang out ex malls, movies, stuff like that. Just talk to then and get to know them.
2006-08-11 11:14:00
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answered by jax 2
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Mabe girls are frightened because you blame everything negative on God (ive been reading your other questions). Im sure you're a great guy, but mabe it'll just take a little longer.
2006-08-11 11:13:51
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answered by CheerleaderChic 2
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Chances are you will find someone!
Sometimes you have to create your own fate too you know?
2006-08-11 11:11:50
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answered by Kain 5
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