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TALK ABOUT YOUR INTERESTS, MOVIES, SIMPLE THINGS.

THAT WILL USUALLY BRING ABOUT OTHER SUBJECTS TO KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING.

2006-08-11 04:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by urfantasyishere 4 · 1 0

A sure bet is to ask about her. Ask her what is the most fun thing or funny thing she ever did? What is her favorite school subject, if appropriate. Tell her something you did that was embarrassing to you (keep it funny, but light). That will help start to build some trust. What was her favorite family trip? Ask other questions around these questions and be prepared for her to ask them back to you, so think ahead about what you might want to say. Be yourself. Put on no airs. Compliment her, but not about her body; preferably about how she made you laugh at something or how she makes you feel at ease. Comment on how easy it is to talk together (if that is true). You should find lots of material to talk about this way and remember, people like to talk about themselves, so try to keep it on her when possible. It makes people feel important and listened to. That's another key, really listen to what she has to say. But when the subject swings to you, go for it. Ask her what she thinks about your adventure or whatever you've told her about yourself. You'll do great. It's just like making a new friend. That's where it should always begin. Showing respect, listening well, being interested in her answers. Happy date! :-)

2006-08-11 11:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You can ask her what she's been up to this summer (job, vacations, etc). Then hopefully she will ask you the same thing. You can also ask if she does any sports....what she likes to do for fun...If you're feeling really inquisitive and are having trouble making conversation you could play 20 questions and each ask each other questions about anything and everything. I've never done it, but it seems like a really good way to get to know someone.

2006-08-11 11:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by bubabe_08 2 · 0 0

Asking questions about their interests, families, jobs, likes and dislikes is always good conversation openers. Lets face it, everyone likes to talk about themselves whether they admit it or not. You can talk about things that you both are interested in also; ie: music, sports etc. Communication is the best thing in any relationship so if your open and honest through you conversation then you'll feel comfortable, making her feel the same way also.

2006-08-11 11:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0 0

First of all, always compliment her on what she is wearing because girls worry over things like that, honestly, I know!

You can start a conversation by asking her what are her interests and when she tells you, pick one and ask her some detail about it.

2006-08-11 11:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by December Princess 4 · 0 0

First thing is first. Compliment. If it's not your first time seeing her you can comment on what she did with her hair, or notice a piece of jewelry and comment about that. Something as subtle as "Those shoes look wonderful with that dress" can be an ice breaker. (Note to ladies: Take these flattering remarks as you can get them, guys don't really notice your shoes.)

2006-08-11 11:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well I would ask her mostly about herself. What are her hobbies, interests, career goals and things of that nature. Ask her what she likes to do in her spare time or what places she likes hanging out. That will give you a good idea of her interests and character and if you have something in common or genuinely are interested in one of her interests ask her more questions about it. She will love talking about her interests and you will be seen as a good listener. It's a win/win situation.

2006-08-11 11:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by freespirit 5 · 0 0

Ask about her, and not about yourself unless asked specific questions...look her in the eyes when talking and listening to the conversation...allow her to feel that you want to get to know all about her..and genuinely find her interesting...good luck.

2006-08-11 11:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0 0

Music.

2006-08-11 11:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by CheerleaderChic 2 · 0 0

dont talk about yourself too much girls like to be complimented and if you make a good start the conversation will flow on from there

2006-08-11 11:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

We like to talk about ourselves so ask questions but don't let her talk up a storm. Tell her some things she might not know about her. And always listen to what she say's she might ask u what u think.

2006-08-11 11:07:58 · answer #11 · answered by MEST_FAN 2 · 0 0

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