my fiancee is addicted to porn sites,do i need to worry?

Answer 1

uhm.. i`m not sure what to say but read this thing it kinda helps(:

scroll down & there`s this issue about porn. and magazines.. and all that;

Answer 2

Well, first of all think about it for a second. Is he really ADDICTED to porn or does he LIKE porn and you are the one who is obssesed with porn in stead of him? If he just likes porn don't be worried because most of men do like porn. I personally don't fancy that my boyfriend watches porn but I have learnt to accept it. But if he really is ADDICTED to porn, yes baby, you should be worried and you should talk to him about it. He might love you as much as to reduce the amount of porn he watches and with time he might be able to quit it.

Answer 3

Naggy had an AWSOME answer!

Conversation is key...ask yourself what he gets from it that he's not getting from you..and I dont just mean sex.

Then ask him...

Perhaps there is a need he has, that it fulfills.

Remember, men are visual. Men need to see things, not just experience the touch. It's not that he is compairing the women to you, it man only be that he just simply enjoys it.

If you have a problem with him looking ot it, you two should talk and find a good middle ground. If neither of you CAN or WILL talk about it together..well then, there are larger problems to consider.

Best of luck and wishes

~ Bj ~

Answer 4

I CAN'T BELIEVE THESE ANSWERS!!!!!! ... Porn is as addictive as any drug and as any drug, you need more and more (and more erotic and more erotic). Additionally, it causes men to look upon a woman more as a thing to be used instead of a person to be loved. In the worse case scenario it can lead to death. Sex slayers admit that porn was their impetus. You need to tell your fiance' that it is you or his fantasy girlfriends. He is cheating on you by 90%. As they say, "sex is 90% mental." If he is truly addicted, he will need help. You need to tell him to come see you again when he gets some help. If you can't do that, then you don't love him! You should both sit down and read together, Dr. Judith Reisman's "KINSEY: CRIMES AND CONSEQUENCES.

Answer 5

We all are and the reason we are is there is something you all are not giving us. Find out what particular type porn he is watching and you will know what he wants. You may not give it to him, but at least you'll know. PS if he is just watching porn in general, you have a lot of work to do...

Answer 6

I would try to talk to him about it. Looking at Porn when you’re with someone shouldn’t be so widely excepted. Its not actual cheating but it makes the other person have the same type of feelings as if they had been cheated on.

Answer 7

Not all men are addicted to porn. Personally, I don't like it. Why look at pics of naked women when I can look at my wife? If you have a problem with it, he should have enough respect for you to at least not look at when you're around.

Answer 8

So long as it isn't replacing your sex life don't worry about it. Have you thought that maybe it could be something you could share? You can look at stuff together get some ideas or just have a giggle about it?

Answer 9

they can be addicting. start looking at them with him. even sudjest looking at them more often. buy a vibrater, and use it very often, letting him know about it. His ego will get in the way thinking he created a monster, and not wanting to compete with a vibrater, he will start paying more attention to you and not the porn.

Answer 10

don't u think u r lucky that he is addicted to porn sites rather then the actal one? so silly