attitude towards me started to changed 1 year ago. He's like on & off. For simple thing i asked, he'll just get angry and said I'm too demanding and not being understanding. For the past few months, we still talk about our future together. How can a person said he love u deeply today and the very next day he just said he can't live with u anymore. He said he love me and will always love me. After broke up, he still send me text message asking me how am I and telling me that he's sad. But when i plead n beg him for recomcilation, he just refused!
Is he a commitment phobe or what? I love him very much, what should i do now? Should i leave him for good? Please advise.
He told me its hard for him to leave me, but he's trying hard to. If he can't, he'll come back to me! Is he trying to pacify me or what? GUYS OUT THERE, what would make you to said this??
He even ask me to find some n get married fast as my age is catching up, I'm 25. Does that mean he has totally given me up??? I'm hurt !
2006-08-11 04:00:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe he is not going to commit his future with you. I feel that since he told you tt I think you should leave him for good. Let him regret for his action later. Normally when your love one attitude starts to change it signals tt he/she might have fallen for somebody else, whom they think is a better lover than you. Normally when such things happened, I think you have to let go of this relatioship and carry on with your life. No matter how much you have love him in the past, whatever you do now he is simply not interested. Even though both of you may reconciled but how will he feel towards you? I believed you should know better than me. I believe there is better guy out there who will love you and cherish you more than your ex bf. So be brave and carry on with your life.
2006-08-12 15:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. My ex-boyfriend is doing the same thing to me right now. All I can say is that you should try and move on with your life right now. Let him have his time and figure out what he wants. Don't wait for him he can catch up. If he really loves you he will make a commitment and want to be with you. My ex says he misses me and then just turns his back and is a complete jerk. I don't need to be treated like that and neither do you. Be strong and know that there are people who are going through the same thing. I know it hurts.
2006-08-11 11:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he still cannot make up his mind.. he thought of all the happy times he spend w u and want to be w u again..but he may feel that in some ways.. u are not what he want.. hence.. he want to break off w u ... in my opinion.. I feel that the both of you shld have a very truthful heart to heart talk and (pls try not to be emtional and angry when he say that he had other women) ..ask him the reson .. tell him you need to know so that ou can decide what you shld do... tell him to be fair to you as well..give you some reason or background so that you can decide, try to understand the whole situation before you decide to break off totally w him and never ctt him to u can still see hope w him in the future.. if you have a heart to heart talk.. least u can look at his facial expression and see if he is talking truth to you.. if not.. u can just break off totally w him and move on...
if he dun not wan to have a heart to heart talk.. I advice u to move on and find someone who cherish you more. i hope his helps..
2006-08-11 11:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by veramira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. Don’t talk to him at all. I know you’re hurt but you can’t rely on him to make you happy. When someone breaks up with you don’t beg for them to come back. That’s just giving him a power trip. Stop taking his calls, focus your mind on something else and find something positive to do (like getting a pet). He might have said he loved you but people do fall out of love. Try to understand that the sooner you move on the happier you will be.
2006-08-11 11:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by zerospacegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl that i am dating now was in a similar situuation.n she still keeps telling me how wonderful it was to be with him. u gota move on gal.cant stay hoping he'l come back and take you. show him that you can go on alone.dont beg him,try and prtend as if his being or not being hardly makes any differnce 2 u.gota be strong.there are a lot better guys out there.
2006-08-11 11:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by manu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 yrs. is alot, and sometimes people just get bored and tired of eachother... he might love u but is tired of the same thing going on everyday... and oviously u love him... i would suggest that u both take a break! u see other people and so does he, and if he relizes that he still wants to be with u, then he will come back.. and same goes for you, but if he just moves on, then u just do the same... im sure it will not be easy for you, but as time goes, ur heart heals ... Hope that helped uâ¥
2006-08-11 11:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by custom_made_mami 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he still cares for you, but he has realized that you are not the one for him. He doesn't want to lose the good friend he has, but he is ready to move on. You should grow up and do the same.
2006-08-11 11:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by llywarch_dindaethwy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he probably has someone else. He is not very nice to you. Move on and be glad it's over, because it will probably just get worse.He is very self-centered and you don't need him to make yourself feel bad. Go find someone who will appreciate you for who you are.
2006-08-11 11:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and leave this guy alone. He is not serious about the relationship or you.
2006-08-11 11:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to forget him and start dating other men, who will treat you well, without all this drama crap.
2006-08-11 11:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋