SO recently i started going out w/ one of my good friends. ireally like her. Another of our friends is constantly getting between us, literaly. For instance she makes a point to sit in the middle of us.she also tags along and keeps making "excuses" about chaperoning us.We would never do domething bad and there is really no need for this. she also kind of flirts w/ me and i think she likes me but idk. I DONT LIKE HER! please any suggestions to make her stop
thanx
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2006-08-11 03:37:31 · 53 answers · asked by California 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This likes you and knows you like the other girl and is doing all she can to make sure that nothing happens between you and her.
If you want to go out with the other girl alone you are going to have to not tell the other one or if she shows up tell her sorry, but she cant be included in this one this time.
2006-08-11 03:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk first to the girl you're dating about this, preferably on the phone, explain your feelings and ask what she thinks, maybe she's the one who's not sure about you and has asked the other one to chaperon (but don;t accuse her of it), if that's not the case then decide together on the course of action. Yo have to be ready that when you 'confront' this sort of behaviours you will most probably hurt her as no one likes being told their shortcoming... keep levelled head, low voice, be kind and patient, but learn how to say no nicely and establish baundaries for yourself (since you already know what you want and how ou feel about it).
2006-08-11 04:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by Art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask her to hang out with you guys a time or two.
If she interupts you both by sitting between or breaking into a conversation then politly point out to her that you and the other firl were either talking or sitting next to each other.
Also tell the girl you do like about how you feel or just ask her out.
If she likes you back then why waist time. You'll know one way or the other and then you can figure out your next step.
2006-08-11 04:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's jealous and doesn't want to be left out. She probably doesn't have anyone else to go hang out with. You'll just have to ask that girl on a date and maybe mention that you'd like it to just be you and her. But then to be a super nice guy, invite the friend to other things you do together. Make it kind of equal so that your crush doesn't have to choose between you. Sorry...this is a sticky situation!
2006-08-11 03:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it, let her know how it makes you feel and that it needs to stop. If she is a real friend she will stop. If she doesn't stop telling her when and where you are hanging out. And if she still shows up, maybe your girlfriend is telling her because she wants the extra person there. If thats the case then you have worse problems on your hand. :)
2006-08-11 03:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by Lilel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds likes she’s jealous. She likes you and probably is a little hurt that you’ve chosen another girl over her. I would say this to her in person “look I really like you as a friend but that’s it. I’m going out with (other girls name) and I need you to give me some space. It seems like you’re always hanging around us when we want to be alone” Tell her as nicely as possible. Hope that helps.
2006-08-11 03:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by zerospacegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. It is pretty obvious that this other girl does like you. And it just wouldn't be nice to all of a sudden so GO AWAY so I think the best way to nicely tell her that you want her to GO AWAY is... first of all talk to your girlfriend, since your girlfriend is friends with her maybe she can talk to her and tell her that "we are unconfortable when you just randomly come in between us, we don't mind hanging out with you, but when you do things like that, its hard to want to be near you." I don't know i guess the only thing you can do is tell her.
2006-08-11 03:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by meangel15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I can't understand why the third one has to know about you two going out. Just simply don't tell her that you two are going out.
And more simple than that just tell her that you two are going out together and that she should be happy for you, because you really like each-other.
I think this will make her pull back.
Or make her understand that you two need some space, privacy...If she is smart enough she will give up!
Good luck
2006-08-11 04:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her and tell her that you don't need help on your dates. Don't let her know when you are going somewhere with your friend. If that doesn't work, be blunt and tell her she is not invited. Sometimes people need a house to fall on them before they get the message.
2006-08-11 03:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably does like you and is trying to prevent you and yoru girlfriend from being alone... and from getting closer. What you should do about the situation... well you could always call your girlfriend and ask her out on a date without inviting your other friend.
2006-08-11 03:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by Kamunyak 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋